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THE MEETING HANDBOOK-- 2004
Update
The letter killeth, but the Spirit giveth life.
A Compendium
Of the Responsibilities and Procedures for
Officers, Representative, and Committees
of
Berkeley Monthly Meeting
of the
Religious Society of Friends
2151 Vine Street Berkeley, California 94709
* First edition 1978
* Second edition 1984
* Updated and revised 2000
* Updated 2004
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Committees
Ad Hoc Committee to Nominate the Nominating
Committee
Adult Education Committee
Environment Committee
Finance Committee
First Day School Committee
Hospitality Committee
Kitchen Committee
Library Committee
Ministry and Oversight Committee
Subcommittee on
Accessibility and Inclusiveness
Subcommittee on Final Affairs
Subcommittee on Marriage and
Personal Ties
Subcommittee on Quaker
House
Newsletter and Directory Committee
Nominating Committee
Nursery Committee
Peace and Social Order Committee
Property Committee
Teen Group Advisors
Visiting Committee
APPENDICES
I. Recommended Schedule for
Meeting Business
II. Statement of Purpose by First Day
School Committee
III. Past Activities Sponsored by
Hospitality Committee
IV. Library Procedures
V. Producing the Newsletter
and Directory
VI. Use of Our Buildings
VII. Scholarship Committee (inactive)
VIII.The Beginnings of Berkeley Friends
Meeting
IX. History of Quaker House
X. . Some History of First Day School
(i)
KNOW ALL MEN BY THESE PRESENTS:
That we, the members of the Berkeley Society of Friends,
have on this day voluntarily associated ourselves for the
purpose of forming a
non-profit religious corporation under the laws of the State
of California.
I.
The name of said corporation shall be the Berkeley Monthly
Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends.
II.
Said corporation shall be organized for the following
purposes:
a. To promote the interests of Christianity and morality and
to disseminate religious and moral principles.
b. To acquire and hold property for religious and church
purposes and for a burial ground.
c. To maintain a meeting for worship of the Berkeley Society
of Friends at the meeting house of the said corporation at the
place
hereinafter stated.
d. This corporation does not contemplate pecuniary gain or
profit to the members thereof.
III.
The principal office for the transaction of business shall
be located in the City of Berkeley, County of Alameda, State
of California.
IV.
The names and addresses of the persons who are to act in the
capacity of directors until the election of their successors
and who shall be
designated as trustees are as follows:
[Names of original trustees were listed.]
V.
This corporation shall have perpetual existence.
VI.
The annual election of trustees will be held at the time of
Monthly Meeting, 7th month (July), at the Meeting House of the
Association at
Vine and Walnut Streets, Berkeley, California. (Amended
Monthly Meeting, 11th day, 1st month, 1987) (Originally
adopted by Monthly Meeting, 1948)
(ii)
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I OFFICERS
The officers of the Berkeley Monthly Meeting of the
Religious Society of Friends are the Clerk, Alternate Clerk,
Recording Clerk, Alternate
Recording Clerk, Treasurer, Assistant Treasurer, Recorder, and
Archivist. Terms for all officers are one year.
CLERK
The Clerk presides at business meetings, and gathers the sense
of the Meeting in the making of decisions. The Clerk sees that
the instructions of
the Meeting are carried out in all matters pertaining to the
accomplishment of its business. The Clerk is an ex-officio
member of the Committee on Ministry and Oversight, is one of
the Trustees, and acts as clerk of the Trustees.
ALTERNATE (ASSOCIATE) CLERK
The Alternate Clerk takes over the duties of the Clerk in the
absence of the Clerk and is available to the Clerk for
assistance and consultation.
The Associate Clerk is an ex-officio member of the Committee
on Ministry and Oversight and of the Trustees.
RECORDING CLERK
The Recording Clerk takes minutes of business meetings, types
the minutes, and prepares one copy each for the Clerk, the
Recorder, the
Newsletter editor, and the Meeting bulletin board. The
Recording Clerk is an ex-officio member of the Trustees.
ALTERNATE RECORDING CLERK
The Alternate Recording Clerk takes over the duties of the
Recording Clerk in his or her absence or serves on alternate
months.
TREASURER
The Treasurer keeps the records of money collected and sees
that all bills are paid and that expenses generally fall
within the budget. The
Treasurer prepares a monthly report for business meeting and a
financial statement for Finance Committee as directed. The
Treasurer is an ex-officio member of the Trustees and of the
Finance Committee. If a requested expenditure will be over the
budgeted amount the Treasurer takes the matter to Finance
Committee for consideration and approval.
RECORDER
The Recorder keeps the membership records of the Meeting. The
Recorder also handles the exchange of correspondence with
other meetings in the case of of a transfer of membership, and
reports the membership rolls to the statistical clerk of
Pacific Yearly Meeting once a year. Records may be kept at the
Recorder's home, but should be accessible to members.
ARCHIVIST
The Archivist is in charge of the permanent records of the
Meeting, and is responsible for their preservation and
accessibility. These will include
the minutes of business meetings, copies of the newsletter,
papers, clippings, records of committee meetings and their
activities, and matters of historical interest to the Meeting
and its members. Most records will be stored at the meeting
house unless being worked on by the Archivist.
TRUSTEES
The Trustees of the Meeting consist of the Clerk, the
Alternate Clerk, the Recording Clerk, the Treasurer, and the
Clerk of the Committee on Ministry and Oversight. The Trustees
represent the Meeting in all business transactions. The
Trustees act only as instructed by the Meeting. The clerk of
the Meeting is clerk of the trustees. For purposes of
corporation law, the chief executive officer shall be the
clerk of the Meeting, the secretary shall be the Recording
Clerk, and the chief financial officer shall be the clerk of
Finance Committee. The Trustees meet on the occasion of
business meeting in 7th month, and name officers at that time,
in satisfaction of legal requirements.
BANK SIGNATORIES
The following officers shall be the signatories on checks
written on meeting accounts: the Treasurer, the Assistant
Treasurer, the clerk of the
Finance Committee, and the clerk of the Meeting. One signature
shall suffice on checks.
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II-A REPRESENTATIVES
Representatives are chosen by the Meeting to represent the
Meeting to various Friends' bodies and other agencies. These
change from time to time.
COLLEGE PARK QUARTERLY MEETING
The representative to College Park Quarterly Meeting attends
each Quarterly Meeting during the year and reports back to
Berkeley Meeting. The representative may be instructed to
carry concerns of Berkeley Meeting to Quarterly Meeting.
EAST BAY SANCTUARY COVENANT
The representative to the East Bay Sanctuary Covenant attends
their meetings and reports back to the Meeting, keeping the
Meeting informed of
sanctuary needs and activities.
ECUMENICAL CHAPLAINCY TO THE HOMELESS
The representative to the Berkeley Ecumenical Chaplaincy to
the Homeless represents the Meeting on the governing board of
that body and brings its concerns back to the Meeting for
action.
FRIENDS COMMITTEE ON LEGISLATION OF CALIFORNIA
Two representatives are nominated to the Friends Committee on
Legislation of California Executive Committee to represent the
Meeting and to report back on matters on which the Meeting may
or should act. The representatives are ex-officio members of
the Peace and Social Order Committee.
PACIFIC YEARLY MEETING
Two representatives are nominated to Pacific Yearly Meeting to
serve overlapping two-year terms, so that one new
representative is chosen each year. The first year of the term
of each representative shall be as observer, and the second
year as full representative. In the event that the full
representative is not able to attend Yearly Meeting, a past
representative or observer should be nominated for a one-year
term as representative. The representatives are expected to
present a report to business meeting as soon as practicable
after Yearly Meeting.
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II-B LIAISONS
A liaison is appointed to an organization in which the
Meeting has an interest but to which it does not send a
representative. In the event that the
Meeting has a member on the governing board of the
organization, a liaison is not needed.
AMERICAN FRIENDS SERVICE COMMITTEE
The liaison to the American Friends Service Committee keeps
the Meeting informed of actions, events, and well-being of
that body.
BEN LOMOND QUAKER CENTER
The liaison to Quaker Center keeps the Meeting informed of the
actions, events, and well-being of that body.
SIERRA FRIENDS CENTER (JOHN WOOLMAN SCHOOL)
The liaison to Sierra Friends Center keeps the Meeting
informed of the actions, events, and well-being of that body.
FRIENDS COMMITTEE ON NATIONAL LEGISLATION
The liaison to the Friends Committee on National Legislation
keeps the Meeting informed of the actions, events, and
well-being of that body.
FRIENDS HOUSE
The liaison to Friends House keeps the Meeting informed of the
actions, events, and well-being of that body.
UNITY WITH NATURE
The liaison to the Pacific Yearly Meeting Committee on Unity
with Nature keeps the Meeting informed of projects and action
concerned with preservation and stewardship of the Earth. Such
information should include actions and issues from the
national committee, now called Earthcare Witness.
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III. COMMITTEES
Several committees are appointed to enable the Meeting to
prepare and carry out its business. Membership on all
committees is open to all members and attenders of the Meeting
except that only members may serve on the Committee on
Ministry and Oversight. Clerks for committees are nominated by
the Nominating Committee, except for the clerk of Nominating
Committee who is designated by the Ad Hoc Committee to
Nominate the Nominating Committee. Terms for all committee
members, including clerks, are one year except for Ministry
and Oversight members, whose terms are three years, and for
Nominating Committee, whose terms are two years.
All committees should keep records of their meetings and
activities during the year. These records should be given
periodically to the archivist.
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AD HOC COMMITTEE TO NOMINATE THE NOMINATING COMMITTEE
The three members of the Ad Hoc Committee to Nominate the
Nominating Committee are nominated from the floor of business
meeting in 11th month and approved at that meeting. One of the
three is named as convener.
Members of the Ad Hoc Committee should be regular attenders
of meetings for worship and meetings for business. In order to
ensure rotation of leadership in the Meeting, they should not
be members of the current Nominating committee or members of
the current Committee on Ministry and Oversight. They should
not nominate themselves to serve on the new Nominating
committee.
The Nominating Committee consists of six regular members and
two alternates. The Ad Hoc Committee nominates three new
members each year to serve for two years on the Nominating
Committee. The Ad Hoc Committee also nominates the two
alternates and the clerk of the Nominating Committee, who must
be a member of the Meeting. These nominations are reported to
business meeting in 12th month for approval.
Guidelines for selecting Nominating Committee members
The nominees to the new Nominating Committee should comprise
a balanced representation of the Meeting as a whole. Nominees
should also be regular attenders at meetings for worship and
at business meetings. They should have a wide acquaintance
with the Meeting's members and attenders and their resources.
Attenders may be nominated to the Nominating Committee.
The Ad Hoc Committee gives a copy of the job descriptions of
the officers of the Meeting and of the committees (including a
copy of the job description of Nominating Committee) to the
new clerk of Nominating Committee.
The clerk of the Meeting is responsible for ensuring that
the convener of the Ad Hoc Committee to Nominate the
Nominating Committee has a copy of this committee description.
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ADULT EDUCATION COMMITTEE
This committee has responsibility for the ongoing education
of members and attenders of the Meeting. The Committee
provides opportunity for timely discussion of issues and of
concerns of members, and helps newcomers understand Friends'
faith and practice. This is usually accomplished by setting up
forums and discussion meetings.
For a few years now the Committee has presented a program
several times a year called "Introduction to Quakerism for
Newcomers" based on a course developed at Pendle Hill.
In past years at least one member of the Committee on Ministry
and Oversight was required to be on the Adult Education
Committee. This practice was discontinued about 1995.
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ENVIRONMENT COMMITTEE
The Committee on the Environment will facilitate and support
the Meeting's collective and individual concerns about the
effect our human activities have on Earth's ecological
balance, resources, and the well-being of life on our planet.
The Committee will study the work and literature that has
been developed in the fields of ecology, energy use, social
change, global change due to human activities, and
preservation of biodiversity. It will plan and coordinate
events to help the Meeting understand these processes. The
Committee will be a liaison between Meeting and other
organizations working for the well-being of our planet. The
Committee will work with the Meeting to explore the
relationship between Quaker testimonies and environmental
concerns, and to examine individual and corporate behavior in
its relation to care for the environment.
When courses of action seem desirable or necessary to be
taken by Meeting as a whole, the Committee may bring proposals
to business meeting after due seasoning.
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FINANCE COMMITTEE
The Finance Committee is responsible for considering all
financial matters connected to the business of the Meeting,
and makes recommendations to business meeting for approval. It
prepares the annual budget for consideration and approval by
the Meeting, and may take any steps it deems necessary to see
that the budget is met, through fundraising letters, use of
bequests, or other appropriate means. It advises the Treasurer
in applying established policies, and in setting up schedules
and appropriate procedures for meeting the financial
obligations of the Meeting. It names the person to make the
annual audit of the Meeting's financial records. It is
responsible for the secure placement of the Meeting's reserve
funds.
The Treasurer, Assistant Treasurer, and clerk of the
Property Committee are all ex-officio members of the Finance
Committee.
When requests come to the Meeting which are over the
approved budget, they will be referred to the Finance
Committee, which may consider them through the use of a
subcommittee consisting of the clerk of Finance Committee,
another member of the Finance Committee selected by the clerk
of the Committee, and the Treasurer. They season the request
and bring it back to business meeting.
During the budget process, Finance Committee receives a
report from Property Committee on major projects for the
Meeting in order to incorporate these into our budget for each
coming year. These projects may include major structural
changes to our buildings, the purchase of other buildings, or
building on other sites in Berkeley. (However, in 1974 the
Meeting approved laying down plans for new buildings for the
indefinite future.) The Committee will decide whether to
propose these as budgeted items or to recommend using
our reserves.
The Finance Committee, together with Quaker House
Subcommittee of Ministry and Oversight, will determine the
amount of contribution to be made by the assistant resident of
Quaker House.
Finance Committee may invest reserve funds without requiring
the approval of the Meeting for each transaction. Investment
plan guidelines for the
Meeting's reserve funds are shown on the next page.
The normal calendar for Finance Committee activities is as
follows:
* 3rd month (March): Fiscal year begins;
audit of previous year's books.
* 4th month (April): Report by the
Treasurer at business meeting on investments; first fund
appeal letter.
* 9th month (September): Review
investments; begin budget planning.
* 10th month (October): Prepare second fund
appeal letter to the membership.
* 11th month (November): Send second fund
appeal letter to the membership.
* 12th month (December): Prepare new budget
for 1st month business meeting.
* 1st month (January): Present budget,
print in 2nd month Newsletter.
* 2nd month (February): Budget should be
approved at business meeting.
Investment Plan Guidelines for Meeting Reserve Funds
A. The investment of reserve funds shall be made consistent
with our needs for liquidity and capital preservation.
Investments shall be consistent with the Quaker testimonies of
equality, simplicity, peace, and community; and, whenever
possible, will serve as an extension of our social outreach.
B. Sufficient working capital shall be maintained in the
checking account and money market account to cover the needs
of expected expenses. These expenses will include 50% of the
annual budget, the reserve fund for maintenance and repair,
the Sharing Fund, and the Scholarship Fund. The relative
amount in the checking account versus the money market account
is at the discretion of the Treasurer.
C. Unsecured loans shall be limited to $75,000 or 30% of our
assets, whichever is lower. This amount is intended only as a
maximum. Loans shall have a fair market return, equal to, at
minimum, the prevailing money market rate, or preferably the
current one year certificate of deposit rate. (In conventional
finance planning practice, devoting 10% of reserves to
unsecured loans is considered high. Berkeley Meeting members
have requested that we use our reserves as an extension of our
giving by making low interest loans to appropriate nonprofit
organizations. The Finance Committee recommends that unsecured
loans should normally be only 10-20% of our reserves. Should a
serious need arise, we could loan up to 30%.)
Loans with an interest rate below money market rate shall
not exceed $10,000 or 5% of the portfolio and shall be
considered a partial gift. Future
loans should have a repayment schedule and should not be
open-ended.
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FIRST DAY SCHOOL COMMITTEE
The First Day School Committee plans and carries out the
programs for the children, usually from 6 to 11 years old, who
attend our Meeting. A junior high group has sometimes been
formed, and for the last few years we have had a thriving teen
group. The Committee has the following responsibilities:
1. Work with parents and teachers to provide experiences
helpful to the spiritual development of the children of the
Meeting and to their understanding of Quaker testimonies,
history, and practices of worship and decision-making.
2. Make provisions for any necessary child care during meeting
for worship when there is no First Day School, e.g. holidays,
summer.
3. Provide suitable personnel for First Day School.
4. Buy supplies and teaching materials needed for the program
and send bills to the treasurer.
5. Assume responsibility for special programs, such as
Christmas, Easter, family days, picnics, etc.
6. Assist teachers to maintain an attractive classroom,
organize books and materials, and provide training as
feasible.
In Appendix II is a statement of purpose which was developed
by the Committee in 1995. In Appendix X is a narrative summary
of the recent history of the children's education program for
the reference by the committee.
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HOSPITALITY COMMITTEE
The purpose of the Hospitality Committee is to bring
together "members and attenders, young and old, in love and
mutual care." The committee also assists the Meeting,
committees, Quarterly Meeting, and Pacific Yearly Meeting in
providing hospitality for special occasions, by arranging
housing or meals as needed, in cooperation with the Kitchen
Committee. Howard Brinton suggests in "Guide to Quaker
Practice" that the Meeting should aim at a pattern of human
relations among its own members that could be an ideal for
society as a whole. The Hospitality Committee's contribution
to the spiritual life of the Meeting is to provide a warm
atmosphere and well-run social events which help individual
members and attenders to feel at home in the Meeting
community. The Committee should examine from time to time
whether its activities really promote community within the
Meeting and are not merely routine functions.
The Committee should also know various elements of the
Meeting (young people, young parents, single parents, isolated
persons, the elderly, etc.) and learn their particular social
needs in order to suggest or initiate ways to fulfill those
needs.
Special attention should be given to finding easy and
comfortable ways for newcomers to fit into the Meeting and
into the work of this committee.
Practical chores should be divided among committee members
and willing members of the Meeting at large. The Committee as
a whole should meet to do creative planning for its work.
Because other committees of the Meeting have gatherings and
special affairs, it is appropriate for the Hospitality
Committee to plan only a few
activities each year, scheduling these to avoid too many
activities in any one month.
The Hospitality Committee gives the Newsletter editor timely
notices of its activities and ensures that the activity is
announced after meeting
for worship.
As the Meeting changes, the activities that are appropriate
will also change. A list of activities put on by Hospitality
Committee which have had
success at various times in past years is given in an
appendix.
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KITCHEN COMMITTEE
The Kitchen Committee is responsible for the maintenance and
use of the kitchen facilities in the Education Building.
The duties of the Committee include the following:
1. Prepare refreshments for the hospitality hour after meeting
for worship.
2. Take charge of meals on pot luck days and other gatherings
of Friends. (Volunteers for the simple meal before business
meeting are chosen
at the previous business meeting.)
3. Organize cleanup of the kitchen area after use by the
Meeting, and ensure that other groups keep the area clean.
4. Organize work parties for special cleaning events such as
changing shelf paper, cleaning the oven, etc.
5. See that supplies such as soap, sugar, coffee and tea, and
also clean dishes, towels, etc., are always on hand.
6. Check on equipment and its condition, and report any
important needs to the Meeting.
7. Help the Hospitality Committee at the time of special
events of the Meeting.
It is expected that the Committee itself will not do all of
the cleanup but will involve members and attenders on a
rotating basis.
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LIBRARY COMMITTEE
The Library Committee manages the Meeting's lending library,
orders and catalogs new, replacement, and donated items, and
assists members and attenders in using the materials. The
Committee also orders and stocks pamphlets and educational
materials for sale and for use at Meeting activities.
Specific duties include:
1. Assist with the use of the library, particularly by having
a committee member present after meeting for worship while
members and attenders are looking for materials, and consult
with committees and Meeting groups on request. The library
will not normally remain open for use past one hour after the
rise of meeting for worship.
2. Obtain suggestions for new books and materials, and accept
orders from other committees. The Committee normally makes the
final decision on books that will be part of the lending or
reference library, whether bought or donated. (If the
Committee cannot reach clearness in a particular case, the
matter may be referred to Ministry and Oversight.)
3. Catalog new acquisitions in accordance with the
instructions in Appendix IV. They may also be announced in the
Newsletter from time to time.
4. Keep fresh stock of pamphlets and magazines in the foyer.
The library receives several categories of periodicals
(Quaker, non-Quaker, paid subscriptions, free) which are
processed according to the instructions in Appendix IV.
5. Provide a place for returned books, and replace the book
cards with a note of the date when returning books to the
shelves.
6. Send notices or make phone calls to those who have kept
books more than two months.
7. Keep a non-circulating book of the Newsletters for the past
5 years available for use. Keep an updated copy of this
Handbook also available for
reference. Give appropriate material to the Archivist.
8. Hold cleaning or work parties as needed to maintain the
materials in good condition. Normal cleaning of floor and
windows is done by those
responsible for general janitorial activities.
9. Prepare the library portion of the Meeting budget as
requested by Finance Committee, and clarify new or changed
items to the Finance Committee and business meeting. The
budget should provide for all expenses, including books,
periodical subscriptions, cards, card pockets, tape, stickers
and stamps.
10. Give all bills and receipts to the Treasurer, who may
provide checks to accompany mail orders when necessary or
advantageous. Appendix IV
contains a detailed list of current procedures for the Library
Committee in carrying out its duties.
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MINISTRY AND OVERSIGHT COMMITTEE
INTRODUCTION:
General Responsibilities of the Committee
I. MEMBERSHIP
1. Admission to membership
2. Transfer of membership
3. Membership of children
4. Oversight of the membership
5. Termination of membership
6. Continuing membership
II. SUBCOMMITTEE ON
MARRIAGE AND PERSONAL TIES
1. Oversight of marriages
2. Counseling
3. Encouragement of personal ties
III. SUBCOMMITTEE ON FINAL
AFFAIRS
1. Preparation
2. Assistance
3. Memorial meeting
4. Memorial minute
IV. SUBCOMMITTEE ON
QUAKER HOUSE
1. Responsibilities
2. Selection of Quaker House resident(s)
3. The Meeting's responsibilities to the resident(s)
4. The residents' responsibilities to the Meeting
V. SUBCOMMITTEE ON
ACCESSIBILITY AND INCLUSIVENESS
VII. SPECIAL FUNDS
1. Sharing Fund
2. Scholarship Fund
3. Barbara Nelson Fund (Educational Assistance Fund)
4. Fund for concerns
5. Travel Fund for attendance at Pacific Yearly Meeting
6. PYM Fund for help to non-registrants for the draft
7. Quarterly Meeting Scholarship Fund
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INTRODUCTION: General Responsibilities of the Committee
The Committee on Ministry and Oversight
consists of nine members of the Meeting nominated for
overlapping terms of three years, with three members
nominated each year. Members may be re-nominated to the
committee. The Clerk and Alternate Clerk are ex-officio
members.
The committee has general oversight of the
spiritual and corporate life of the Meeting. In searching
for insight and clarity concerning meetings for
worship and for business, present practice is to open the
first part of each committee meeting for members and
attenders to present their concerns. Since the committee
often considers sensitive matters, the rest of the committee
meeting is closed. Minutes are kept of each meeting by the
clerk of the committee and passed to the next clerk.
In overseeing the spiritual life of the
Meeting the committee seeks to inspire members to faithful
attendance at meetings, to quiet, prompt and
reverent assembling for worship, and to appropriate and
worshipful speaking at meetings. When necessary, two members
of the committee should counsel a person whose speaking in
meetings causes concern.
The Committee considers ways of deepening our
worship, including planning retreats and worship or
fellowship groups. It should contribute to the annual State
of the Meeting report an appraisal of the spiritual
condition and needs of the meeting for worship.
The committee also has the overall
responsibility for educating our young people in
understanding Friends' principles and testimonies, as
carried out by the First Day School Committee.
Ministry and Oversight should be ready to
counsel and provide loving attention to all individuals
within the Meeting, both those who ask for it
and those who do not. It should be sensitive to inner needs
as well as to actions that cause concern.
It needs information on the resources for
counseling within the Meeting and in the wider community.
For this purpose, Ministry and Oversight maintains a list of
community agencies and resources prepared and updated by its
Subcommittee on Marriage and Personal Ties.
As part of its oversight of the corporate
life of the Meeting the committee encourages all members in
the faithful performance of their duties. It ensures that
all Meeting functions are clearly understood and performed.
To this end, it maintains guidelines of duties and
responsibilities of officers and committees, and
periodically updates this handbook on Meeting procedure.
The committee is responsible for all matters
pertaining to membership, for overseeing marriages under the
care of the Meeting, and for attending to final affairs upon
the death of a member of the Meeting. To assist with these
duties, the Meeting has established four subcommittees whose
members and conveners are designated by M&O. These
subcommittees are described in subsequent sections.
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I. MEMBERSHIP
1. Admission to Membership
Admission to membership follows these
procedures:
The letter of application is read by the
Clerk to business meeting as soon as possible after it is
received. The applicant is invited to be present when
the letter is read. Then the letter is given to the clerk of
M&O. It is the responsibility of members to get to know
the applicant so they can make an
informed decision regarding the applicant. At its next
meeting, M&O will select a membership clearness
committee, one of whose members belongs to M&O. The
names of the membership clearness committee are reported by
M&O to the following business meeting.
The membership clearness committee begins to
meet with the applicant before the next business meeting,
and reports back to Ministry and Oversight when it believes
its visiting is complete. After discussing the committee's
report, and if it recommends acceptance, M&O brings its
recommendation to the next business meeting. Final action by
the Meeting is deferred until the following month.
If there is any impediment to accepting an
applicant, this usually becomes apparent early in the
clearness process. Then the applicant may be requested to
wait several months, to read Quaker literature, attend
meetings, search heart and mind - whatever is needed to
remove the impediment. The process should be so thorough
that disapproval should not be expected at the business
meeting.
When a new member is accepted, the Meeting
appoints a committee to plan a welcoming event, usually
called a welcoming committee. The Recorder supplies the new
member with a membership form to be completed. The Clerk
forwards to the Recorder the new member's letter of
application and the report of the clearness committee which
become, along with the membership form, a part of the
Meeting's permanent record.
Encouraging Applications for Membership
Although no one should feel pressured into
seeking formal ties with the Society of Friends, it is a
function of M&O to suggest this step to faithful,
longtime, and serious attenders who have not taken the step
of commitment. Care for the spiritual welfare of the
attender will determine the appropriateness of raising the
question of membership. The committee should try to open the
way to a fuller responsibility and fellowship, and to
explore stumbling blocks if these exist, or help the Meeting
to understand and respect the attender's desire to continue
that status.
Guidelines for membership clearness
Ministry and Oversight has found it useful to
articulate a set of guidelines for membership clearness
committees, in order to give reasonable consistency to our
procedures for admitting new members, and to improve the
experience of visitation for both committee members and the
prospective new member. The aim is not to require that all
applicants be treated alike, but rather to help us avoid the
divergent practices of committees that have sometimes been
observed (and criticized) in the past. Below are the
practices we recommend to all concerned with the privilege
of admitting members into our Meeting and the Religious
Society of Friends. These guidelines supplement the advices
on new memberships in PYM Faith and Practice, and it
is assumed that committee members will approach the
visitation with the Faith and Practice in mind.
Ministry and Oversight Procedures on
Membership
The clerk of M&O keeps a record of those
who serve on clearness committees, in order to rotate those
asked and to spread out participation in the process.
Ordinarily, M&O names two members of the
Meeting at large and one member of M&O, with alternates,
and specifies a convener for the clearness committee. Care
should be taken to ensure that there is a balance between
empathy for the prospective member and objectivity in
exploring that person's commitment to the principles of
Friends. The clerk of M&O gets acceptances by the
appointees and alerts the clearness committee to any
circumstances involved in the application that may require
special attention.
The clerk of M&O sends to each member of
the clearness committee a copy of the letter of application
and a copy of these guidelines. The clerk of M&O also
reports the names of the clearness committee at the next
business meeting.
When the clearness committee is clear, they
bring a recommendation back to the next regular meeting of
the Committee. This report is in written form and is
confidential. If more than one meeting with the applicant is
needed, this fact is reported to M&O by the member from
M&O on the clearness committee.
M&O then agrees on a recommendation,
which it reports to business meeting. The final decision is
laid over to the following month's business meeting.
Clearness Committee Procedures
If the letter of application or any unusual
circumstance raises a question in the mind of a committee
member, the committee may want to discuss such a question
before meeting with the applicant.
All members of the clearness committee must
meet with the applicant at the same time. A member of the
committee cannot approve the application in advance of the
visit or in absentia. If a committee member finds it
impossible to meet within a reasonable time, M&O should
be asked to replace the member.
It is usually best for the visit to take
place in the applicant's own home. The clearness
committee may meet more than once with the applicant.
Following the visits, the committee agrees on a
recommendation and on its report to M&O. If the
clearness committee has difficulty reaching agreement, it
meets with the full committee to resolve the issues.
The clearness committee asks the applicant
not to attend the business meeting in which M&O makes
its recommendation, or the subsequent meeting in which final
action is taken on the applicant's admission.
Visitation
The meeting of the committee with the
prospective member is a time for worshipful exploration of
spiritual values. Although the clearness committee will be
concerned with the preparation of the applicant, the
committee approaches the meeting with the realization that
reaching a decision to ask for membership is a religious
milestone for the applicant. The committee must judge
whether the applicant is ready for full participation in the
Meeting community. The purpose of the visit is to gather a
sense of the applicant's seriousness of commitment, length
and depth of association with Friends, and understanding of
Friends' ways, including our manner of doing business. (It
is essential that the applicant have direct experience, and
not simply reading knowledge, of how meeting for business
functions.) Other concerns include familiarity with the
history of Friends, commitment to the testimonies, including
the applicant's attitude to military service and relation to
the draft, and possible impediments, such as dual membership
or prior religious commitments, or other family interests
and obligations, if the decision to seek membership is not
shared by the family.
Finally, the clearness committee and M&O
will reach a recommendation mindful that we are all seekers,
that no one of us is a finished product, and that we can
trust in the growth of the new member in the company of
Friends, as we trust in our own further shaping in God's
hand.
2. Transfer of Membership
Membership in the Society of Friends is held
in a Monthly Meeting. When a member wishes to transfer
membership to Berkeley Friends Meeting, the Friend first
writes a letter to the old Meeting requesting the transfer.
Then the Friend writes a letter to Berkeley Monthly Meeting
asking for transfer of membership to Berkeley Meeting.
These letters are read at the respective
Meetings upon receipt so that members of both Meetings are
aware that the transfer is proceeding.
The overseers of the old Meeting will
consider the request for transfer of membership, and if
everything is in order, they will make a recommendation to
the old Meeting for approval of the transfer. The old
Meeting then prepares a Certificate of Transfer of
membership and sends it with any related records to Berkeley
Meeting.
Ministry and Oversight Committee of Berkeley
Meeting will consider the request for transfer of membership
only after the Certificate of Transfer and membership
records have been received from the old Meeting. Membership
continues in the old Meeting until Berkeley Meeting sends
that Meeting the Acceptance of Transfer form.
The 1985 PYM ^B and Practice states that "the
originating meeting is obligated to inform the receiving
meeting of any special problems experienced with a
transferring member." The clerk of Ministry and Oversight of
Berkeley Meeting will request the old Meeting to provide
information, if any, about problems related to a
transferring member.
Upon receipt of the Certificate of Transfer
and membership records, Ministry and Oversight will appoint
a small committee to visit the transferring
member, after the manner of a new applicant for membership.
If Ministry and Oversight is satisfied with the application
for transfer, it makes a recommendation to the next business
meeting that the transfer be approved.
When approved, the Friend is recorded as a
member of Berkeley Meeting, and the Clerk sends a completed
Acceptance of Transfer form to the clerk of the old Meeting.
If Berkeley Meeting finds grounds for serious
concern about the transfer, the Clerk returns the
Certificate of Transfer and the related membership records
to the old Meeting, with an explanation for the denial of
transfer. If the Friend still wishes to pursue the transfer,
consultation between the overseers of the two meetings is in
order.
At the time of the approval of the transfer,
the Meeting appoints one or more Friends to give a welcoming
party. Berkeley Meeting sometimes holds joint welcoming
parties for two or more new members or transfers.
3. Membership of Children
A baby or a child of the Meeting is welcomed
into the Meeting with a special celebration where the child
is acknowledged as a "child of the Meeting." Any parent may
register a child as a "child of the Meeting." The recorder
will list the child as such in the membership rolls.
When a child who is a regular attender at
Meeting or First Day School reaches the age of 12 (or
thereabouts), the Meeting may recognize that young person in
a special way to make him or her feel welcome among us.
When a child of the Meeting is able to take
on a mature commitment, usually about age 16, the young
person is encouraged to apply for adult membership. The
procedure is the same as for any other application for
membership.
If, when the young person reaches the age of
25, he or she has not become a member, he or she is asked
again concerning interest in becoming a full member. If the
person is not interested, his or her status becomes that of
an attender (or ex-attender if there is no longer any
relation to the Meeting), and that person is no longer
listed as a child of the Meeting.
Ministry and Oversight extends its loving
care to all our children, to those informally related to the
Meeting as well as those with formal ties.
The following table outlines the formal
connections of child members with Berkeley Meeting:
"Child of the Meeting" Requested by Quaker
parent at birth or when parent enters Meeting Special
recognition Requested by child at about age 12 by registered
"child of the Meeting," or by the child of an attender or
member Adult membership Encouraged by Meeting when a junior
member or child of the Meeting reaches age 16 Attender
status If the young person has not assumed adult membership
by age 25, his status as child of the Meeting will be
terminated by the Meeting.
4. Oversight of Membership
Oversight of membership is an ongoing
responsibility of M&O. The guiding principle of
oversight is care for the continuing, rewarding, and mutual
relationship of the member and the Meeting. In a small
meeting the participation
and personal needs of individual members are known, but in a
large and diverse meeting such as ours an effort is needed
to keep in touch with those who are absent over a period of
time.
While all of us share responsibility for each
other, it is a special function of M&O to be aware of
non-participating members and to take appropriate initiative
to inquire about the well-being of such persons. Where there
is a
personal need, M&O tries to be responsive. Where there
may be a lessening of interest, M&O tries to find out
how to satisfy the member's expectations of the Meeting and
to learn from this interchange. At all times M&O should
respect an individual's privacy and should understand the
need for occasional periods of withdrawal from meeting
activities.
Oversight of the membership includes
encouraging persons to share responsibility for the work of
the Meeting through serving in offices or on committees,
leaving to the Nominating Committee the specific task of
matching members' interests with the Meeting's needs.
The Finance Committee is responsible for
making known the Meeting's budgetary needs, but M&O's
oversight of distant or inactive members may call for a
reminder that each unsupported membership is a cost to the
Meeting that detracts from our ability to respond to
pressing social concerns.
5. Termination of Membership
Termination of membership is a concern of
M&O. This action is recommended to the Meeting as a last
resort when it is necessary to recognize that a member has
become separated from the Meeting and that a relationship to
the Meeting no longer exists. The request for termination
preferably comes from a member; when a meaningful relation
has ceased, the person who no longer feels part of the
Meeting should take the initiative to end the formal tie.
Then M&O carefully consults, in person or by mail, with
the member wishing to withdraw. If there is unhappiness with
the Meeting, M&O tries to meet the dissatisfaction and
to bring it to the attention of the Meeting. Finally M&O
may recommend to the Meeting that the request for
termination be accepted, and the Meeting may do so. A person
who has terminated membership is free to reapply at a later
date. We should realize that separations, which may be
painful, are not in themselves failures. They may be a
necessary part of spiritual growth that we as individuals
and as a Meeting are called upon to accept.
Lapsed members who do not take the initiative
to terminate their membership present M&O with a
different responsibility. M&O has the duty to see that
our formal rolls truthfully represent commitment to the
Society of Friends. We should not continue to list (and to
support) Friends in name only who have actually dropped out
of association with the Meeting. On the other hand, inactive
members should not be discontinued if they still identify
themselves as Friends in a meaningful way. In dealing with
this delicate problem, M&O operates with tenderness
toward those for whom membership still has spiritual
significance in spite of being out of touch, at the same
time that it respects a concern for truth by seeing that our
formal rolls and our actual membership coincide.
6. Continuing membership
From time to time the clerks of M&O and
of the Meeting, the treasurer, and the Recorder may compile
a list of distant, missing and inactive members. Then
M&O will form an ad hoc Subcommittee on Continuing
Membership, composed of one member of M&O and two other
longtime Meeting members, with a convener designated by
M&O.
The list is reviewed by the Meeting. The Subcommittee then receives the list from the clerk of M&O and contacts these separated members. Distant members should be written to, and local inactive members should be visited in order to explore their continued relationship to the Meeting. Names of local members who would like to be active but are unable to be, are referred to the Visiting Committee. When release from membership seems appropriate, this information is brought to M&O for a recommendation to the Meeting.
In its contacts with inactive members, the
Subcommittee should be sensitive to any dissatisfaction with
the Meeting, and report this to the full committee.
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II. SUBCOMMITTEE ON MARRIAGE AND PERSONAL TIES
This subcommittee is intended to express the
concern of the Meeting for the well-being of members and
attenders who are married or considering marriage, living
together as couples or as families, or in family-like
groups, or who may have problems in these relationships. The
subcommittee also cares for those living singly who may wish
to be enriched with more personal relationships. Three
functions of Ministry and Oversight are delegated to this
subcommittee: oversight of marriage under the care of the
Meeting; friendly counseling on relationships of concern to
members or attenders; and encouragement of personal ties to
enhance the spirit of community within
the Meeting.
The subcommittee is appointed by M&O. It
consists of six persons, at least one of whom is a member of
M&O. The subcommittee members serve overlapping 3-year
terms to provide continuity, two persons being named each
year. The subcommittee meets regularly in a spirit of
consecration and love, in order that members may be ready to
minister to others when called upon, and to carry out its
assigned functions.
Qualifications for the subcommittee are like
those for M&O. Those named should be active members of
the Religious Society of Friends and should represent a
variety of backgrounds. They should strive to develop those
skills and exemplify those qualities that are needed for
personal ministry and spiritual guidance. They must be
careful in keeping confidences. They should be aware of
personalities and relationships among the members and
attenders and be alert to individual needs.
The ability to listen without judgment and
with the gift of spiritual insight beyond doctrine are
especially valuable. Other desirable qualities in
subcommittee nominees are warmth, sympathy, approachability
and practical resourcefulness. (See Faith and Practice.)
1) Oversight of Marriage: In 1994,
Berkeley Meeting affirmed its intention to consider equally
and without reference to gender all applications for
marriage under its care. Those seeking marriage under the
care of Berkeley Meeting may apply to the Clerk or to the
clerk of the Committee on Ministry and Oversight.
Applications are welcome when at least one of the couple is
a member or regular attender. If neither is well-known, the
Meeting is reluctant to accept the marriage under its care
but may provide counsel and may allow a meeting for worship
at which marriage vows are exchanged.
The request is taken promptly to the
Subcommittee on Marriage and Personal Ties. As soon as
practicable, the Subcommittee selects at least one of its
members and other members of Berkeley Meeting to form a
marriage clearness committee, usually consisting of three or
four persons. This committee (like a membership clearness
committee) is named by the Subcommittee without advice from
the couple, but with sensitivity to their personal life
style. The request, with the names of the couple and of
those on the marriage clearness committee, is announced at
the next business meeting.
The marriage clearness committee is
responsible for exploring with the couple the "clearness" of
the proposed marriage under the care of the Meeting. In the
context of marriage, "clearness" historically meant absence
of impediments to the union. In our present usage the word
has been extended to mean the couple's serious commitment to
each other and to the Meeting that takes them under its
care.
The marriage clearness committee meets with
the couple as often as necessary. Individual counseling by a
member of the clearness committee may be provided on
request. Suggested areas to be discussed with the couple can
be found in Faith and Practice.
When its work is done, the marriage clearness
committee reports its findings to the full subcommittee. If
the marriage clearness committee is not united, the couple
is so advised privately, and is offered further counseling.
Then the Subcommittee determines what action should be
taken; if disunity continues despite the best efforts of
Friends, the matter is referred to M&O for any further
action. The outcome, favorable or not, is reported without
personal details to the next business meeting.
When the Subcommittee has unity that the
Meeting should take this marriage under its care, the
recommendation is taken to meeting for business by M&O.
Members of the marriage clearness committee should attend
this meeting. The Clerk will notify the couple of the action
taken by the business meeting. If Meeting concurs, an
arrangements committee is named to schedule and assist in
the marriage. This committee is chosen in accordance with
the wishes of the couple and includes a member of the
Subcommittee, or another Friend with experience in the good
order of Friends' meetings for marriage.
All active members and attenders of the
Meeting should be notified and encouraged to attend the
marriage. Formal invitations are unnecessary. Other friends
and relatives of the couple are gladly welcomed in the
meeting for worship in which the marriage takes place.
Arrangements should be consistent with Friends' testimonies
of harmony, simplicity, and community.
The phrase "under the care of the Meeting"
means little unless both the couple and the Meeting accept a
commitment to mutual care and openness. It is expected that,
as difficulties arise, the couple will seek the counsel and
support of the Meeting.
The Subcommittee will keep a record of the
membership of marriage clearness committees in case further
contact between the couple and the committee seems
desirable. Since the clearness committee already knows some
of the couple's life histories, they should particularly be
available and keep in touch. However, the Meeting as a whole
is called to maintain the bonds of friendship, caring, and
common purpose which the marriage has acknowledged.
2) Counseling: Members of the
Subcommittee should make themselves available to hear
problems expressed by those who are living together. It
should express the loving concern of the Meeting for all
affected persons, both adults and children, upon separation
or dissolution of a marriage. When a relationship is broken
by death they should help surround the survivor or survivors
with the loving care of the Meeting. Any member or attender
of Berkeley Meeting may privately ask a member of the
Subcommittee for counsel. Also, the subcommittee may take
the risk of intruding into private matters and offer its
service to those under stress. When a subcommittee member is
not able to respond promptly or appropriately, he or she
should arrange for another to help the person in need. The
Subcommittee as a whole may consider individual cases, and
may refer them to the full committee, to the Visiting
Committee, or to other sources of assistance.
Confidentiality must be maintained in these
endeavors.
Those in need should not be referred to
professionals while their care is within the competence and
stamina of members, but the Subcommittee should know its
limitations and be prepared to refer to professionals those
who have problems beyond its competence. To this end it can
gather literature that may be helpful to those in crisis,
and compile a list of counseling resources in the Meeting
and in the wider community. M&O should have access to
these resources.
The Subcommittee should be alert to
situations where a clearness committee could help the person
or persons work through concerns or personal confusions.
Persons requesting a clearness committee should do so
through M&O.
3) Encouragement of personal ties:
The subcommittee takes a leadership role in forming social
and special interest groups which enrich friendships and
personal ties among our members and attenders. Beyond
participation in meetings and social concerns, a sense of
community is nurtured when we know and appreciate each other
as individuals. The Subcommittee on Marriage and Personal
Ties carries the concern of Ministry and Oversight that we
share our lives more fully with one another.
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III. SUBCOMMITTEE ON FINAL AFFAIRS
To carry out its responsibility for Friends
and attenders at the end of life, Ministry and
Oversight appoints a Subcommittee on Final Affairs, composed
of two or more members or attenders, at least one of whom is
also on M&O. The Subcommittee's functions are: to help
Friends and attenders prepare their hearts, loved ones, and
affairs for this inevitable conclusion, to assist at the
time of death, to arrange memorial meetings, and to compose
memorial minutes.
1. Preparation: The Subcommittee
makes these forms available in the library and on request:
Durable power of attorney for health care (empowering a
person other than an attending physician to control terminal
care), and Instructions to the Meeting on its role in the
person's final affairs. Copies of instructions to the
Meeting will be kept, in confidence, by the clerk of the
subcommittee.
The Subcommittee works with the Library
Committee to select and present materials on death, dying,
loss and grief. The Subcommittee may conduct open meetings
at which final affairs are discussed. Also, the Subcommittee
will prepare and maintain guidelines covering actions that
may need to be taken by individuals, the Subcommittee, or
the Meeting at the time of death. Copies will be kept in the
library and offered to those in need of the information.
2. Assistance at time of death:
Unless constrained by specific instructions, the
Subcommittee will approach the terminally ill, or those
(usually next of kin) closely involved with the terminally
ill or deceased, and with attention to the guidelines, offer
such services as the Meeting can at that time provide.
3. Memorial meetings: When a memorial
meeting is requested, a member of the Final Affairs
subcommittee, or a person chosen by them, is named as
coordinator; an ad hoc committee clerked by the coordinator
may be named if necessary. The coordinator or ad hoc
committee will work with those bereaved to meet their needs
and those of the Meeting, as way opens.
Money for the memorial meeting may be spent
from the Ministry and Oversight budget on request, either by
the ad hoc committee or by the coordinator with approval of
the clerk of Ministry and Oversight. The Treasurer will
credit any reimbursement to the M&O budget, but no more
than the amount spent. Additional money received should be
accounted as an undesignated contribution to the Meeting, or
as the donor designates. There will be no direct charge for
use of Meeting premises, nor for the services provided by
the Meeting, if the deceased, or the bereaved, is a member
or regular attender.
4. Memorial minutes: A memorial
minute briefly expressing main aspects of the life of a
member or attender may be written by one or two friends of
the deceased; in any case, the Final Affairs subcommittee
ensures that a minute for a member is completed as soon as
practicable and presented to the Meeting for acceptance.
After acceptance, copies are given to the recorder of the
Meeting, to the editor of the Newsletter, to the clerk of
the Yearly Meeting Ministry and Oversight committee, to Friends
Bulletin, and (if appropriate) to Friends Journal.
The minute is not usually completed before the memorial
meeting, and may well derive material from testimony given
there.
5. Completion: Within a few months of
the death of a Meeting member or attender, the Subcommittee
closes out its file on the deceased person. The Recorder's
copy of the memorial minute, the letter of application for
membership, and any other documents of historical interest
(such as news clippings) then go into the Meeting's
permanent archives. The deceased member's instructions on
final affairs are not preserved.
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IV. SUBCOMMITTEE ON QUAKER HOUSE
A Subcommittee on Quaker House has been
established as a subcommittee of Ministry and Oversight.
M&O will appoint four members of the Meeting to serve
three-year terms on this subcommittee, with the possibility
of reappointment.
The Quaker House Subcommittee will assume
responsibility for Quaker House. Areas of responsibility
include the function and appearance of the building, the
responsibilities and roles of the residents, and the role of
Quaker House in Berkeley Meeting.
The Quaker House Subcommittee will consult
with other committees as appropriate. Clear communication
with the residents and consideration of their concerns will
be a central aspect of the Subcommittee's role.
The Subcommittee will be aware of maintenance
needs of Quaker House, and will establish priorities for
identified repairs. It will work with Property Committee and
others involved to ensure that repairs and other work on the
house and grounds are accomplished efficiently in a manner
that is sensitive to the needs of the residents.
Emergency repairs will be handled by the
residents in communication with the clerks of the
Subcommittee, the Property Committee, and the Meeting.
Meeting use of Quaker House will be arranged
in coordination with the Subcommittee and the residents.
1. Selection of Resident(s): Process
and Criteria
A. Policies regarding operations at Quaker House will be
established by Ministry and Oversight, in consultation with
Property Committee and Finance Committee. Because of the
inaccessibility of Quaker House, we will not hold meetings
in Quaker House which are announced as open to the entire
Meeting or to the public.
B. The Subcommittee, together with any continuing resident,
will interview applicants for residency and make
recommendations to Ministry & Oversight, which will then
take the recommendation to business meeting for approval.
C. Criteria for choice of resident
1. Meeting seeks Quaker House residents who, through their
presence and in their dealings with those whom they contact,
willingly act as the Meeting's representatives to the
public.
2. We expect their participation in the life of the Meeting,
including worship and business meetings.
3. We encourage residents to search for their own ways of
rendering service to the Meeting, according to their own
vision.
4. We ask for a commitment of at least two years.
2. The Meeting's Responsibilities to the
Residents
A. The Meeting will provide a communication vehicle through
which residents may inquire, suggest, or convey concerns to
the Meeting or entities within the Meeting.
B. The Meeting will:
1. See that Quaker House is clean and in good repair.
2. Provide an operating stove, refrigerator, two heaters,
water heater, and an answering machine.
3. List furnishings in the House which are Meeting property.
4. List defects or damage existing at the time residents
move in.
C. The Meeting will obtain and provide furniture needed for
Meeting functions that may take place in Quaker House.
D. The Meeting will make major repairs brought about by
normal wear and tear.
E. The Meeting will pay the garbage, water, and Meeting
phone bills.
F. The Meeting will respect the residents' privacy,
providing adequate notice about repairs to Quaker House and
before scheduling Meeting events at Quaker House.
4. Residents' Responsibilities to the
Meeting
The Subcommittee and the residents will prepare a detailed
list of duties.
The residents will:
A. Assume general oversight of Meeting property at all
times, including nights and weekends.
B. Respond promptly to unforeseen circumstances in a
friendly way, in keeping with the ideals of Friends.
C. Maintain good relations with neighbors and frequenters of
the neighborhood.
D. Maintain a schedule for use of all Meeting buildings.
E. Handle requests for rental of the buildings in accordance
with Meeting policy, and collect rents or donations. They
should refuse rental or re-rental for cause, or for failure
to meet Meeting policies. They should consult with Property
Committee when needed to interpret Meeting policy.
F. Keep keys to the buildings, supervise use and return by
renters, Meeting groups, and authorized Meeting members.
G. Guard and supervise care of buildings, and instruct
building users in proper procedures.
H. Receive mail and distribute to mailboxes in the Education
Building.
I. Directly answer Meeting phone calls or take messages;
refer callers to appropriate Meeting members.
J. Share downstairs of Quaker House for occasional Meeting
functions.
K. Keep house reasonably clean and orderly. Keep Quaker
House grounds clean, uncluttered, trim, and sufficiently
watered to prevent loss of permanent plantings. They should
help at work parties if requested.
L. Assume once-weekly janitorial duties or arrange in
consultation with Property Committee.
K. Help to select the assistant resident.
L. Supervise the assistant resident.
5. Financial Arrangements
1. Convey rents and contributions to the Treasurer.
2. Pay PG&E bills, sharing with the assistant resident.
3. Provide own private phone, or share the cost of the
Meeting phone.
4. Provide own furniture as needed beyond that provided by
the Meeting.
5. Assume responsibility for minor repairs as needed. Assume
responsibility for any major damage caused by residents.
Consult with Property Committee on repairs as appropriate.
6. Be ready for Property Committee to do agreed repairs to
Quaker House during regularly scheduled work party hours.
Access to Quaker House for the purpose of repairing the
premises at any other time will be cleared with the
residents in advance.
5. Responsibility of the Assistant
Resident
A. Contribution. The assistant resident contributes a
monthly amount, to be determined by Quaker House
subcommittee in consultation with Finance Committee.
B. In case of resident's absence or incapacity, assumes
duties of the resident. The assistant resident relieves the
head resident one weekend per month and at other times by
agreement.
C. At all times, as appropriate, assists in monitoring
maintenance and security of Meeting property, shares
responsibility for general cleanliness of Quaker House,
assists resident in duties requiring more than one person,
and performs other services as needed.
D. Assists in promoting neighborhood awareness of Meeting
policies regarding Meeting properties, especially Meeting
House steps and parking areas.
E. Like the resident, is the meeting's representative to the
public and the neighborhood.
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V. SUBCOMMITTEE ON ACCESSIBILITY AND INCLUSIVENESS
This subcommittee of Ministry and Oversight
is appointed to study and make recommendations to the
Meeting regarding making the Meeting and its gatherings
fully accessible to and inclusive of all persons, whether by
changes to the Meeting property, by providing special
equipment to assist those with limitations, or by
structuring our proceedings and interactions so as to
increase our sense of community.
Three or more persons shall be appointed by
Ministry and Oversight to this subcommittee for one year
terms. At least one of the members of the subcommittee shall
be a member of Ministry and Oversight. Any member of the
subcommittee may be reappointed to the subcommittee in the
succeeding year.
The Subcommittee meets as needed and as asked
to by the Ministry and Oversight committee. Reports of its
findings and recommendations will be made in a timely manner
to the full committee for final recommendations to be
forwarded to a subsequent business meeting. The Subcommittee
may consider matters other than those directed to it by
Ministry and Oversight.
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VI. CLEARNESS COMMITTEES
The spiritual strength of a Meeting finds
important expression through
the loving community of its members. It is appropriate to
the development of
this spiritual life that members of the Meeting should feel
free to approach
the Meeting for assistance in dealing with major turning
points in life,
including such matters as career decisions, lack of funds to
live on, terminal
illness, withholding of taxes, marriage, separation, or
divorce. One way the
Meeting can respond to this need for help is through a
clearness committee,
appointed by Ministry and Oversight Committee in conjunction
with, and at the
request of, the individual or individuals seeking help.
A clearness committee meets with the
individual or family, not as
professional counselors or as friends discussing a problem
and giving advice,
but rather as caring Friends, drawing on the resources that
bind us together
in our meetings for worship.
Maintaining a spirit of openness and
prayerful waiting, clearness committee
members seek to help the individual become clear about an
impending decision
by serving as a channel for divine guidance. They are there
to listen without
prejudice, to help clarify alternatives and their
implications, to facilitate
communication if necessary, and provide emotional support as
an individual or
family seeks to find God's will. The size of such a
committee and the number of
times it meets with those seeking to make a decision depend
on circumstances.
Committees come into being when those seeking
clearness approach a member
of Ministry and Oversight, or the M&O committee as a
whole, and ask that a
clearness committee be arranged for them. M&O then tries
to understand and
clarify the reason for the request. If it is agreed that a
clearness process
is appropriate to meet the need, M&O suggests potential
members for such a
committee. More potential members should be suggested than
will be needed
since the person or persons requesting help will make the
final selection, and
of these not all will be available. Those who are asked to
serve should feel
free to decline the responsibility. The clerk of M&O
will contact the suggested
members and designate a convener.
In forming a clearness committee, Ministry
and Oversight considers these
questions:
* Does the committee have a good range of age and
experience?
* Is the committee too large or too small to be effective?
* Can members of the committee work well together and put
aside
personal biases?
* If it is a family decision, do all the members of the
family
involved feel comfortable with the committee? It is not
necessary
that all members of the family be in accord with seeking the
help
of a committee in reaching a decision, but the committee
must keep
all members of the family in mind and be careful not to take
sides
or even to appear to take sides against a family member who
refuses to participate in the process of seeking clarity
through a
z committee of this nature.
* If there are children involved, is the committee cognizant
of
their needs?
M&O may want to ask persons outside the
Meeting community, such as members
of Yearly or Quarterly Meeting Ministry and Oversight
committees, or others with
special resources, to serve on clearness committees.
The convener will be responsible for
clerking, coordinating arrangements
for meetings, and for reporting progress to M&O. At the
first meeting the
committee should define with those seeking clearness the
approach to be used,
the approximate time period before progress will be
evaluated, and the degree
to which confidentiality is desired.
Members of the clearness committee may choose
to meet without the person,
couple or family seeking clearness in order to clarify among
themselves what
has been said and what issues need to be addressed.
After the agreed interval of time (e.g. three
or four meetings) the
committee, together with the person or persons seeking
clearness, should
determine whether progress is being made, whether
individuals on the committee
still feel able and willing to continue, and whether those
seeking clearness
should be referred for professional counseling. It is
important to recognize
when a problem is beyond the resources of the committee so
that other approaches
can be initiated.
All concerned must understand that the
decision finally reached is not
either sanctioned or condemned by Ministry and Oversight or
by the Meeting.
The clearness committee is intended to help with the
process, but the decision
is the responsibility of the individual or family concerned.
Several pages of helpful questions and
advices to members of a clearness
committee can be found in the New England Yearly Meeting
handbook, Living with
Oneself and Others (1978), copies of which are in the
Meeting library.
Persons asked to serve on such committees are referred to
this resource, from
which excerpts were freely adapted for this section.
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VII. SPECIAL FUNDS
Ministry and Oversight has responsibility for
three Meeting funds: the
Sharing Fund, the Scholarship Fund, and the Barbara Nelson
Fund. There are also
funds managed by Pacific Yearly Meeting and College Park
Quarterly Meeting. The
role of Ministry and Oversight differs in relation to these
various funds.
1) The SHARING FUND provides care for
the material needs of members and
long-time attenders of the Meeting. Administered with strict
confidentiality
by the Committee, this budgeted fund enables the Meeting to
be of assistance
to those seeking financial help because of special
circumstances. The Sharing
Fund is used to meet personal problems of members and
attenders; other funds
are available to support social concerns carried by Friends.
The Sharing Fund is administered entirely at
the discretion of M&O,
although M&O asks Finance Committee approval of amounts
involved. Requests
for use of the Sharing Fund are not reported to business
meeting.
The person requesting assistance may do so by
writing to the clerk of
the Committee or by coming to an M&O meeting in person.
A personal appearance
is preferable, as questions and answers may be more
informative than correspondence.
Everything pertaining to the individual's identity and
situation is held in
confidence. Even in requesting Finance Committee approval of
funds, or in the
treasurer's report to the Meeting on the status of the
Sharing Fund, only
dollar amounts are mentioned, not the circumstances.
Complete trust and tenderness in discussing
the problem are the means to
reaching a satisfactory outcome. It may become apparent that
some other solution
than giving money would be beneficial, such as a clearness
committee, or visitation,
or professional advice.
If financial help is the final decision, it
may be in the form either of
a loan or of an outright grant, depending on factors such as
the purpose of the
funds or the ability of the person to repay. Loans are
desirable, as the return
of the loan replenishes the Sharing Fund and makes it
available for other needs.
If a loan is made, it is advisable at the outset to set a
schedule of repayment,
even if only small monthly amounts are possible. Persons
assisted should report
to Ministry and Oversight at regular intervals.
If a loan is made, a record is kept by the
clerk of M&O and the treasurer
of repayments. If necessary, the clerk reminds the borrower
of the obligation.
The treasurer gives an annual statement to the borrower and
to M&O of payments
received and the balance of the loan.
2) A SCHOLARSHIP FUND is also
maintained by the Meeting in order to help young
persons to attend Friends' schools. The scholarships are
grants, not loans;
however, the Meeting welcomes repayments to the Scholarship
Fund as the recipients
are able to do so.
3) The BARBARA NELSON FUND was
established using a bequest to the Meeting by
our beloved former member Barbara Nelson. Its purpose is
threefold:
a. To develop leadership in the meeting;
b. To encourage members and active attenders to do Quaker
studies, or
attend workshops and retreats which will enrich their
spiritual
lives and help them nurture the spiritual life of the
Meeting; and
c. To undertake other studies which may be of direct benefit
to the
Meeting.
The Barbara Nelson Fund differs from the
Educational Assistance Fund in
that applicants may apply and will be considered on the
basis of how the studies
or workshop will benefit themselves and the Meeting, rather
than on the basis of
their financial need. Both the interest and the principal
may be used in the
allocation of grants from the Fund.
Members and attenders will be actively
encouraged to make use of the Fund
in keeping with its purpose. Letters requesting such use
will be received by
Ministry and Oversight for consideration and decision as to
whether to make a
grant from the Fund.
4) A FUND FOR CONCERNS was approved
at the 1979 Yearly Meeting of Pacific
Yearly Meeting. For more information about this Fund refer
to Faith and Practice
of PYM. The Ministry and Oversight committee is charged with
approving requests
to this fund and forwarding them to the Yearly Meeting.
5) A TRAVEL FUND is maintained by
Pacific Yearly Meeting to help members and
attenders attend its meetings. A recommendation from a
Monthly Meeting is
required to use this Fund, and Berkeley Meeting has
delegated to its Ministry
and Oversight committee the responsibility for developing
this recommendation.
6) A NON-REGISTRANTS FUND is also
maintained by Pacific Yearly Meeting to help
non-registrants for the draft. The use of this too has been
delegated to Monthly
Meetings for a recommendation, and by Berkeley Meeting to
its Ministry and
Oversight committee.
7) A QUARTERLY MEETING SCHOLARSHIP FUND
is also available for young people to
attend John Woolman School or Sierra Friends Center; this
too requires the
recommendation of a Monthly Meeting and has been delegated
by the Meeting to
the Ministry and Oversight committee.
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NEWSLETTER AND DIRECTORY COMMITTEE
The Newsletter
and Directory Committee is responsible for putting out the
meeting Newsletter once a month, except in August, and
also for the annual
directory of members and attenders.
The third
Sunday of each month has been the usual deadline to submit
items
for the Newsletter. The Newsletter is printed during that
week, and on the 4th
Sunday after meeting for worship, Friends assist in
folding it and addressing it.
One committee member takes care of the mailing.
One member of
the Committee has usually handled the maintenance and
printing
of the directory, and another committee member has taken
care of the mailing,
usually the same as handles the mailing of the newsletter.
Detailed
procedures which have been set up for the production and
mailing
of the Newsletter and the directory are given in Appendix
V.
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NOMINATING COMMITTEE
The Nominating
Committee finds people to carry out the business of the
Meeting. It consists of six members and two alternates.
The Ad Hoc Committee
to Nominate the Nominating Committee nominates three new
members each year for
two-year terms and two alternates. The Ad Hoc Committee
also designates the
clerk of Nominating Committee, who must be a member of the
Meeting. Nominations
to the Nominating Committee are approved at business
meeting in 12th month.
The Committee
nominates officers, committee clerks, representatives, and
committee members. It does not nominate the subcommittees
of Ministry and
Oversight.
Its nominations
for the Clerk, Alternate Clerk, Treasurer, and members of
Ministry and Oversight are always (and for clerks of
committees, usually) members
of the Society of Friends. The clerk of the Meeting is not
appointed to committees
except as an ex-officio member but may participate in
committee work.
The Nominating
Committee tries to place each person in the position where
he or she feels most able or willing to serve the Meeting.
It strives to achieve
continuity of leadership on committees without ignoring
the need for change.
To further these goals the Committee should:
1. Check with clerks of committees to discover who has
been active.
2. Check with all active members of committees to find out
if they
wish to continue serving in the same capacity.
3. Be sure each nominee understands the work of the
committee and has
made a commitment to serve.
4. Never exclude someone from a committee simply for the
sake of
rotating the membership.
5. Be alert to new members and attenders who may wish to
serve on
committees.
6. Not nominate its own members to Ministry and Oversight
without
special approval at business meeting. In such a case, that
member
of Nominating Committee resigns from Nominating Committee
when the
final nominations slate is approved; one of the alternates
then
becomes the functioning member of Nominating Committee.
7. Not nominate its own members as officers without
special approval
at business meeting. In such a case, that member of
Nominating
Committee resigns from the Committee when the final
nominations slate
is approved; one of the alternates then becomes the
functioning member
of Nominating Committee.
The Nominating
Committee may make nominations to fill committee vacancies
as they occur, without waiting for the vacancy to come
first to the attention
of meeting for business. All nominations are approved by
business meeting.
The Nominating
Committee gives copies of the descriptions of the duties
of committees and officers to each designated clerk or
officer.
The report of
the Committee is presented to business meeting in 2nd
month,
with additional nominees in 3rd month. The nominations are
published in the
4th month Newsletter. The report is presented to business
meeting in 4th month
for approval in 5th month. The new officers and committees
begin their work in
6th month.
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NURSERY COMMITTEE
The Nursery
Committee provides for child care during meetings for
worship
for infants and children up to age 5. Specific duties
include the following:
1. Provide persons to oversee the children. The committee
hires one
or two persons for this purpose, and solicits volunteers
from Meeting.
2. Maintain the supplies for the nursery, including
refreshments and
drawing materials.
3. Check the condition of the nursery and equipment and
bring significant
needs to the attention of the Meeting.
4. Provide child care for other Friends' functions such as
threshing
meetings and Quarterly Meeting.
5. Introduce children to some of the practices of Friends,
e.g. silence
before snacks, non-violent resolution of problems.
6. Create a community of parents of young children. This
is a great help
to young parents, especially first-time parents.
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PEACE AND SOCIAL ORDER COMMITTEE
zz This
committee keeps the Meeting informed about peace and
social concerns
and recommends appropriate action. It may be one committee
or two, depending
upon the number of actively committed members in these
areas and the directions
of Meeting interests at the time. The committee may at
times form ad hoc
subcommittees to deal with special issues.
The first
function of the Committee is to process information
relating to
peace and social order concerns. The Committee provides
literature and bulletin
boards to enable Meeting members and attenders to inform
themselves. It may
also plan seminars or study groups.
Second,
the Committee alerts the Meeting when it feels that
individual or
corporate action would be an appropriate Friends' witness
for peace or justice.
z Third,
the Committee "seasons" concerns before they are brought
to business
meeting or after a request from business meeting. It is
desirable for members
and attenders to bring social concerns to the Committee
before bringing them to
business meeting to enable this seasoning process to work.
Members are free to
act as individuals or groups according to conscience, but
they should not claim
to represent the Meeting without prior approval of
business meeting.
Fourth,
the Committee supports and guides existing action by
Meeting members
and other groups, according to its capacity, especially
acting as a channel
between the Meeting and Friends' organizations such as
AFSC and FCL, and the
Peace Committees of Quarterly and Yearly meetings.
Fifth,
the Committee suggests how the Meeting should spend the
funds which
are budgeted for local outreach. The primary requirement
for eligibility for a
contribution from Meeting is that the organization's goals
and methods are
consistent with Friends' beliefs. Other factors are a)
that a member or attender
of Meeting participates in its activities; and b) that it
has difficulty obtaining
adequate funding from other sources.
Finally, the
Committee follows through on concerns that the Meeting has
undertaken in the area of peace and social order, seeing
that they are carried
through or duly laid down with the approval of the
Meeting.
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PROPERTY COMMITTEE
The Property
Committee is responsible for the general care and
maintenance
of Meeting property, including buildings, furnishings, and
grounds. The committee
also determines policy for the use of our buildings,
especially the Meeting House
and the Education Building. The clerk of Property
Committee is an ex-officio
member of Finance Committee.
The Property
Committee is in charge of planning big projects (e.g. a
new
roof) to be described in a document called "Long Range
Plans." A copy will be
given to Finance Committee when the annual budget is being
prepared.
The Committee
supervises the janitor and will meet with that person to
discuss various aspects of his work and remuneration.
The Committee
should report to business meeting at least twice a year.
The Committee
also maintains a Property Committee file containing
reports,
contracts, estimates, architectural drawings, records of
conversations with the
janitor, documents related to the rental of our buildings,
and so forth.
A list of current policies relating to the use of our
buildings and a copy
of the application form are given in Appendix VI.
Care of
Property
The Property
Committee should:
1. Check thoroughly and regularly the condition of all
areas, inside and
outside. Major improvements or changes are brought as
needed to the attention
of the Meeting. Maintenance, repairs and improvements are
done by or arranged
by the Committee.
2. Sponsor regular work parties to undertake the work not
assigned to
the caretaker, and not requiring professional skill.
3. Obtain suitable furnishings for the buildings and
provide for their care.
Keep an inventory of all furnishings.
4. Recharge fire extinguishers regularly.
5. Have the piano tuned as needed.
6. Provide storage and security for audio-visual and other
equipment.
7. Maintain a supply of wood for the fireplace.
8. Keep a log of all repairs, improvements and major
expenditures,
showing date, work done, cost, and any followup needed.
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TEEN GROUP ADVISORS
From time to
time Berkeley Meeting has had an active teen group which
has
met in Quaker House during meeting for worship. One or two
adults served as
advisers to this group, usually volunteers or selected by
the group itself.
The actual running of the program was left to the teens
themselves as much as
possible.
Teens from
Strawberry Creek Meeting have also participated in the
teen
group. In recent years because of fewer teens in Berkeley
Meeting and many in
Strawberry Creek Meeting the focus of energy has shifted
to that meeting. But
at present (2004) the focus seens to be shifting back to
Berkeley Meeting.
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VISITING COMMITTEE
The Visiting
Committee coordinates and provides visitation to members
and attenders of the Meeting, as an extension of Ministry
and Oversight's
function of care of the membership. At least one member of
Ministry and
Oversight shall be designated to serve on the committee.
The Committee's
primary concern is to provide or arrange for personal
visits to members or attenders known to be sick, lonely or
to have special needs.
Secondary concerns of this committee are to:
1. Try to know the various individuals of the Meeting:
young,
elderly, single parent, etc.
2. Keep informed of visits made by other Meeting members
and
attenders who may know the needs of other individuals
connected
with the Meeting.
3. Make the names of committee members known to the
Meeting through
the Newsletter, so that people who may need the attention
of the
committee can contact them.
Although
transportation for isolated or incapacitated members has
usually
been arranged informally by people in the Meeting, the
Visiting Committee should
coordinate this service if necessary.
It is
understood that the Visiting Committee does not discharge
for each
and all of us our responsibility to care for one another.
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APPENDIX I. Recommended Schedule for Meeting Business
JUNE a)
New officers and committees begin to function June 1
b) New directory (flexible)
c) Report of Quarterly Meeting
d) A gathering of clerks of committees is
useful
JULY a) Annual meeting of trustees as required by
state
b) Newsletter for both July and August
AUGUST a) No Monthly Meeting
b) Pacific Yearly Meeting: representatives
attend
SEPTEMBER a) Peace and Social Order discusses local
outreach
b) Property Committee report
OCTOBER a) P&SO recommends local outreach
contributions
b) Quarterly Meeting - 3rd weekend
c) Volunteers plan Thanksgiving dinner and
Thanksgiving worship
NOVEMBER a) Finance Committee annual appeal (flexible)
b) CPQM representative report
c) Volunteer for Christmas card mailing
d) Volunteer to convene Christmas meeting for
worship
e) Ad Hoc Committee to Nominate the
Nominating Committee
selected from the floor at
Monthly Meeting
DECEMBER a) Finance Committee prepares a draft budget for
January Newsletter
b) Renewal of Bulletin subscriptions
c) Ad Hoc committee reports on new Nominating
Committee;
d) Monthly Meeting approves new Nominating
Committee and its clerk
JANUARY a) Finance Committee presents draft budget
to monthly meeting
b) Quarterly Meeting - third weekend
c) Monthly Meeting decides method for
preparing State of the Meeting report
FEBRUARY a) Final approval of budget for new fiscal year
March1 through February 28 or 29
MARCH a) Representative Committee of Pacific Yearly
Meeting meets first weekend;
Representatives
attend
b) Report of PYM Representative Committee
(flexible)
c) Nominating Committee report in April
Newsletter
d) Draft of State of the Meeting report
presented to Monthly Meeting
e) Property Committee report
APRIL a) Final report of Nominating Committee
presented
b) Meeting approves State of the Meeting
report and sends to
Quarterly Meeting
c) Additions may be made to Nominating
Committee report
MAY a) Approval of final Nominating Committee
report
b) Newsletter notice of scholarship fund for
PYM attendance when
personal finances are
limited
c) Recommendation for new committees to meet
in June
d) Quarterly Meeting - 3rd weekend
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APPENDIX II. Statement of Purpose by First Day School
Committee, 1995
The future of
the Meeting lies in its children and it is the
responsibility of the Meeting to shelter them, teach them
and cherish
them within the Meeting community. We must pass on to them
Friends'
values, commitments, beliefs, and history. They should
know about the
sufferings of Quakers in the past, and what it means to be
a Friend
today. We must show them that they are part of a
community, and let
them know what that means to them now and in the future.
1. Quaker
values:
Truth: What the words mean
Simplicity: How those values grew in Quaker thought
Community: Their application in Friends' history
Equality: How we are today
The Light within: Listening to God
The Peace testimony
2. Quaker
stories and histories that illustrate Quaker values:
How we began;
What actions caused us to be different?
Quaker heroes;
Why did Quakers get into so much trouble?
3. Explanations
of other religions, the differences between Quakers
and others, to help Quaker children relate to others.
Many paths to God
Different ways to follow the same light
The Old Testament: Judaism, Christianity, Islam
Later differences
Visits to synagogues or mosques or other churches
Buddhism
Hinduism
Quaker identity
The children
should know that this is a Quaker meeting and should
perhaps
even identify themselves as Quakers. We hope to teach them
a sense of Quaker
identity and at the same time a feeling of inclusiveness.
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APPENDIX III. Past Activities Sponsored by Hospitality
Committee
1. Greet people
as they arrive at Meeting for Worship.
2. Welcome
newcomers personally after rise of Meeting for Worship and
at hospitality hour.
3. Acknowledge
visitors as they leave the meeting house.
4. Contact
newcomers and encourage them to participate in the life of
the Meeting through committees or attending special
functions.
5. Talent
night.
6. Art and
craft show of members' and attenders' work.
7. Neighborhood
potlucks.
8. Meeting
potluck Thanksgiving dinner after worship.
9. Newcomer
breakfasts.
10. Small group
luncheons for newcomers.
11. Family
night with games, songs, etc.
12. Lunch
gatherings
13. Singles
group.
14. Community
breakfast.
15. Birthday
cake on the first Sunday of each month (now done by
volunteer from Meeting).
16. Christmas
celebration (usually with First Day School Committee).
17. Meeting
picnic.
18.
Refreshments for a special occasion, e.g. recital by a
Meeting
member or talk or slide show by member or attender.
19. Name tags
at hospitality hour or other function.
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APPENDIX IV. Library Procedures
Cataloging
1. Determine
the Library of Congress number from another library
(e.g. Swarthmore's) using the Internet. Use original
cataloging
when appropriate numbers for our library's use are
unavailable.
2. Enter date (author, title, subjects, responsibility,
publisher,
added entries, notes, etc.) into the database or into the
script
devised to translate to the database.
Print cards for the shelf list, author, title and subject
references
and labels for the spine, borrower's card, and inside
pocket. File
catalog cards.
3. Use the Meeting's address stamp and library stamp on
title page, inside
front and inside back cover. Paste book pockets in the
back.
4. Remove any dust jackets. Place the spine labels on the
spine if possible,
at a uniform distance (about 1/4 in.) from the bottom. Put
the spine label
on the lower left of the front of the book only if the
printed number is
wider than the spine. The white margins of the label can
be wrapped around
to the front and back. Place clear label protectors over
spine labels.
Paste the labels on the borrower's card on inside pocket.
5. Shelve books.
Library
Checkout
1. No one is to
check out a book without seeing a library representative.
2. Members and attenders listed in our directory may
borrow books by filling
in name and phone number on the borrower's card. Anyone
not listed in the
directory must include an address on the borrower's card.
3. Date due slip in book and borrower's card are stamped:
for books,
2 months; for pamphlets, 1 month.
4. Borrower's cards are filed in the wooden box on the
desk.
Periodicals
1. All
materials should be date stamped except for newsletters
from other
monthly meetings.
2. Other meetings' newsletters are punched with the
three-hole punch and put
into the green (some blue) binders kept at the bottom of
the periodical
shelves. The most recent is put on top. When the binder is
full, discard
all but the last six months.
3. After date stamping, non-Quaker publications are put in
the current periodicals
rack in alphabetical order. Issues received over six
months ago are discarded.
4. After being stamped with the date and the Meeting
stamp, Quaker publications
are shelved in alphabetical order on the top half of the
periodical shelves.
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APPENDIX V. Producing the Newsletter and Directory
General
1. The deadline
for items for the newsletter is the 3rd Sunday of each
month.
The editor collects all items from the newsletter box and
keyboards the text
of the newsletter and outlines the items for the calendar.
She reviews possible
conflicts and verifies uncertainties. The newsletter
contains:
a. Calendar of scheduled events:
Monthly Meeting;
Quarterly Meeting (third weekend in January, May and
October);
Pacific Yearly Meeting;
Other regular committee meetings or activities
b. Report on monthly meeting for business
c. Reports from committees and outside but related
agencies, such as AFSC
d. Articles and announcements by members and attenders
e. Annual reports:
Proposed budget, published in February;
Nominees for officers and committees, published in April;
Local outreach, as requested by Peace and Social Order
committee.
The editor sends the text of the newsletter to the
co-editor. The recording
clerk sends the minutes of the previous Monthly Meeting to
the co-editor for
editing.
Since the
advent of computers communication among those concerned
has
usually been by e-mail or disk. However, the newsletter
can be successfully
produced without such reliance on technology.
2. The
co-editor formats all items and creates the month's
calendar. She edits
the minutes of monthly meeting, changing them into
"notes," omitting some
housekeeping details and making other adjustments to fit
the newsletter format.
She can do this using a home computer.
She takes the completed master copy to a copy shop where
the Meeting has
an account for copying. Either she picks up the completed
copies or delegates
someone else to do so before the fourth Sunday's meeting
for worship. She submits
the signed receipt from the copy shop to the treasurer.
3. A file of
names, addresses and telephone numbers of members and
attenders
and their children is maintained from which both the
newsletter labels and the
directory can be printed. This file also contains
information about recipients
of the newsletter who are not in the directory and persons
listed in the directory
who do not receive the newsletter.
4. One
committee member collects all address changes and new
requests for the
newsletter from the box and corrects and adds them to the
mailing labels and
prints them out prior to Sunday's meeting for worship.
They are grouped by zip
codes.
5 One committee
member supervises the folding and addressing process and
verifies that the newsletters are properly prepared for
mailing. She or he
then takes them to the Post Office on Monday. She confirms
with the treasurer
that there are sufficient funds in the Meeting post office
account to cover
the cost of the mailing.
Preparation for
Mailing the Newsletter
The newsletters
are collated, folded, labeled and sorted with the
assistance
of volunteers after the rise of meeting on the fourth
First Day of the month.
Each month
committee members organize the work, show people how it is
done,
and check the final bundles.
1. Rubber bands, Post Office code labels and other
supplies are kept
in the upper drawer of the file cabinet in the Education
Building.
One committee member is responsible for keeping supplies
on hand.
2. Set up one table in the Education Building before
meeting.
3. Put four sets of newsletter pages on the table so that
people can
fold from each side of the table. Apply scotch tape to
folded
newsletters.
4. Cut address labels into sections for each area code.
Each area
code is identified by a label.
5. Ask helpers to put on address labels from one sheet at
a time and
then to put a rubber band around that batch and tuck the
zip code
label from the top of the sheet under the rubber band. If
members
want to take their newsletter with them, have them remove
their
address labels from their zip code sheet.
6. Put leftover copies for visitors in the box near the
visitor's
book in the meeting house entryway. Place one copy in the
box
beneath the south window of the library, for the permanent
file.
Post another copy on the bulletin board in the foyer next
to the
double doors leading into the meeting room. Post another
on
bulletin board next to refrigerator in the Education
Building.
7. Put away all supplies and tables, clean up as needed,
and close
the Education Building. Turn off lights and make sure
outside
doors are locked.
Producing the
Directory
The directory
is printed annually, containing names and addresses of
members, attenders, and other Friends. Special updated
interim issues may be
printed for officers and committees.
Up to 1970 the
directory file was kept on 3x5 cards and the labels were
printed using an addressograph and addressograph plates.
The directory itself
was printed by Ted Freedman, a member who owned his own
printing press. In about
1973 the cards and labels were combined into a single file
and put on a mainframe
computer from which both the labels and the directory were
printed for a few years.
In about 1978 the file was converted to its present format
and transferred to a
microcomputer. The same person has handled this now for 31
years.
Beginning about
March of each year, the directory keepers need to begin
assembling updated and accurate information for the
directory, which is presently
printed in June of each year. This will involve
announcements after meeting,
calls to persons who are presently listed, but who should
possibly be removed,
and every attempt made to add persons who are newly active
attenders and to
obtain changes of address and phone numbers. Address
information is obtained
from returned newsletters. New children should be listed.
The guest book should
be scrutinized for relevant information. The current
membership list should be
obtained from the recorder so that everyone can be
correctly marked as a member
or not.
The directory
can then be printed from the file, assembled into a
booklet,
copied, collated and folded by a print shop, and mailed in
the same fashion as
the newsletter. (That's the easiest part.)
Preparing
Bundles for Mailing
(The person
doing the mailing may want to do this job at home.)
Check each
bundle and (1) count the items, (2) record the count on a
separate sheet, (3) make sure the bundle has only the same
zip codes in it,
(4) add a second rubber band lengthwise around the bundle,
(5) attach a
colored Post Office code label in the lower left corner of
each bundle.
Remove Meeting's temporary zip code label.
Post Office
code labels are as follows:
D = All labels in the bundle have the same zip code.
3 = The first three numbers of the zip code are the same
for all labels in the bundle, e.g., 94601, 94605, 94611.
A = All other California zip codes that don't fit into the
D or 3
categories.
MS = Mixed states, i.e. all out-of-state addresses in U.S.
Letters outside
U.S.A. are sent by first-class mail.
A bundle should
have at least 10 newsletters in it. Bundles with fewer
than 10 newsletters with the same zip code may be combined
with a larger batch,
changing the Post Office label from D to 3. It is
preferable to divide large
unwieldy batches into two bundles, each with the same P.O.
coding. Maximum per
bundle should be about 20.
Mailing the
Newsletter and Directory
The newsletter
is mailed at the Berkeley Main Post Office on Allston Way
near Milvia under a non-profit organization mailing
permit.
1. Fill out 2 copies of USPO form 36O2N. See sample
attached.
2. Take newsletters to the Main Post Office Bulk Mail
Section at rear
of the building, far left door. Inside the mail room are
white
plastic trays. Put all bundles in one 2-ft. tray.
(Sometimes one
needs an additional 1-ft. tray.)
3. The bulk mail clerk, who does the weighing, fills in
the form and
gives you a receipt (which is a duplicate copy). Give the
receipt
to the Meeting treasurer.
Ask the mail clerk for more rubber bands, code labels or
forms if
our supply is low.
4. The Meeting has a bulk mail account. The mail clerk
will tell you
how much money is left in the account. If it is less than
$100,
leave a note for the Meeting treasurer, who will mail a
check to
the Post Office.
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APPENDIX VI. Use of Our Buildings
Applications
are available at Quaker House from the Resident.
Guidelines
for use by outside groups are as follows:
1. The following can be given permission without special
approval by
the Meeting:
All Meeting activities, and the following Friends' groups
and
functions:
College Park Quarterly Meeting
Pacific Yearly Meeting
Friends Committee on Legislation of California
American Friends Service Committee
Any groups or functions specifically designated by the
Meeting.
2. Extended use by non-Meeting groups (rentals) is not be
permitted.
(A long-standing exception to this has been in the case of
Alcoholics
Anonymous groups.)
3. Activities for personal gain are not permitted, or
activities for
which a fee is charged.
4. Building users and renters must leave the buildings in
good order:
Folding chairs should be returned to storage.
Tables returned to original location.
Table and counter surfaces cleaned.
Trash placed in the trash receptacles provided.
Dishes, flatware, bowls, cups, etc., used for the
activity, to be
washed, dried, and placed back in the appropriate shelves
and
cupboards.
Heat to be turned off, burners checked on the stove, and
lights
turned off
Buildings will be opened only by the Resident, or by
members designated
to hold building keys.
5. Sleeping on the premises will be allowed under the
following
conditions:
At least one adult member of the Meeting must be present
when
there is overnight sleeping.
If the group does not include such a member, use will be
conditional
on such an adult being available from the Meeting, or a
responsible
person designated by the Meeting.
6. Questionable applications will be referred by the
Resident to the
Property committee.
The current
application form for use of the Education Building is
shown below.
APPLICATION FOR
USE OF EDUCATION BUILDING
BERKELEY FRIENDS MEETING
2151 VINE STREET, BERKELEY, CALIFORNIA 94709
1. Name of
group applying:
____________________________________________________
Address:
___________________________________________________________________
2. Contact
person and phone number:
___________________________________________
3. How did you
find out about this space?
_____________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
4. References:
________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________________
GUIDELINES FOR
USE OF THE BUILDING
1. The use of
the building must be consistent with the principles of the
Religious Society of Friends.
2. Smoking and alcohol are not allowed in the building.
3. The building is available from 8:00 a.m. until 10:30
p.m. at the latest.
4. Groups using the building are responsible for seeing
that the room is left
clean; that the lights, heat, and stove are turned off,
and that the chairs
are stacked against the wall. Please do not leave food in
the refrigerator.
LOCK THE DOORS!
5. The bulletin boards in the building are for the use of
the Meeting only.
If you want to leave literature, please put it on the
literature table.
6. Use of the driveway is not included except for loading
and unloading.
7. Permission to use the building does not imply
endorsement of the group by
the Meeting. Advertising by the group should not contain
any reference to
the Meeting except to designate the place where the event
is to be held.
8. Meeting discourages long-term regular use of the
building.
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APPENDIX VII. Scholarship Committee (inactive)
The Scholarship
Committee has been responsible for the Scholarship Fund
and the Educational Assistance Fund. However, this
committee was laid down
about 1991, and the responsibility for these funds has
been given to Ministry
and Oversight committee.
The Scholarship
Fund is intended to help children of members and attenders
to attend any Friends secondary school. The scholarships
are grants, not loans;
however, Meeting welcomes returns to the Scholarship Fund
when the recipients
are able to do so.
The Educational
Assistance Fund is meant to assist Meeting members and
attenders to attend Quaker-organized activities such as
programs at Pendle Hill,
Ben Lomond, or Friends family camps. Contributions from
the Fund are grants,
not loans. Recipients are encouraged, however, to repay
the Fund when they are
able to do so.
Attenders of
short-term programs are expected to share their
experiences
with the Meeting in forums or study groups.
The Scholarship
Committee has set the following criteria for eligibility
for the Educational Assistance Fund:
1. Application deadline shall be June 15 each year.
2. Applicants should be members or long-time attenders and
active in
the life of the Meeting.
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APPENDIX VIII. The Beginnings of Berkeley Friends Meeting
by Ralph W.
Powell, April 1972
Our meeting
directory dated Oct. 1960 contained a brief history of the
Meeting by William James. In Sept. 1959, E. Joseph
Willets, Jr. of 478 Ferne Ave,
Palo Alto, evidently an heir of Dr. Elizabeth W. Griscom,
had sent to Clarence
Cunningham, then clerk of this Meeting, material from her
files regarding the
early history of the Meeting. He also donated back numbers
of the "Intelligencer"
going back a hundred years. I do not know what became of
them, but the file was
passed on to Russell Jorgensen when he became clerk, and
is now in the file case
in the Meeting House basement. I doubt that William James
had seen it when he
wrote his "Brief History." Most of what I have written is
based on the Griscom
material.
William James
said "Soon after the turn of the present century Friends
met
in the home of Dr. Elizabeth Griscom of Berkeley" and it
is probably true that
the organizing meeting was in her home, but it was not
until 1914, and the weekly
meetings for worship were held in San Francisco until some
time in 1915, when
they moved to Oakland. It was emphasized that they were
"Friends of both
branches" but J. Bernard Walton, General Secretary of
Friends General Conference
had supplied lists of Friends in the Bay Area which we
still have.
College Park
Association of Friends was incorporated May 15, 1889. Its
By-Laws as amended May 4, 1918 said "The Association may
at its discretion
constitute and establish meetings for worship and the
transaction of local
business; such meetings to be known as monthly meetings.
These shall be
coordinated with each other under this Association."
Amendments adopted May 10,
1941 said "All Friends who are members of the Monthly
Meetings affiliated with
the College Park Association of Friends are members of
this Association" and
"Non-Friends who wish to become members of the Society of
Friends may do so by
joining any of the affiliated Monthly Meetings." Berkeley
(or Oakland as it was
then) was the first group outside of San Jose established
in this manner, but I
do not know when it was done. Evidently it was not later
than 1920. (See note
at end of article.)
I think Palo
Alto and San Francisco were the next meetings established
but
I don't know their dates either. And I do not know who, if
anyone, authorized
the establishment of College Park Meeting in San Jose. Our
oldest minute book
starts in Oct. 1928, but we have a guest book back to
1921. The first record
that I find of a member being admitted by convincement was
Feb. 23, 1930.
Beginning in
1915 the meeting met every First Day in the "Starr King"
hall
of the Y.W.C.A. at 1515 Webster St. in Oakland, and it was
called the Oakland
Meeting. But in 1920 they found that the room was not
always available and they
had to arrange other unsatisfactory meeting places and
began to talk of buying
a lot and building a meeting house. In late 1920 or early
1921, their clerk,
Edward A. Wright, on his own, paid $50 down on a lot
3OxlOO ft. on 24th St. in
Oakland which was to cost $1,700, and offered to advance
the money to buy it,
"a portion of which would be my contribution and the
balance I would take my
chance of being paid back if contributions enough came
in." But he was taken
sick in March of 1921 and died soon after, and apparently
the Meeting did not
feel that the lot was large enough. His sketch of what he
thought could be
built there is in our files. A memorial written by Lydia
Cox which is in our
files, shows him to have been a very remarkable man.
On Feb. 10,
1921, Dr. Griscom wrote to Mary Whitson at the AFSC
storeroom,
15th and Cherry Sts., Philadelphia about the possibility
of getting financial
help from the Jeanes Fund. The latter discussed the matter
with Jane P. Rushmore,
who composed a suggested draft of an appeal to be sent to
Horace Roberts, clerk
of the Representative committee of Philadelphia Yearly
Meeting (Race St.) which
was to meet Mar. 18, 1921. The draft was revised and sent
to him and then printed
in a form that could be used for appeals to individuals
and other groups. We
have a copy. It is signed by:
Dr. Elizabeth W. Griscom, 1149 Oxford St., Berkeley, Calif
Donald Erskine, 516 29th St., San Francisco, Calif
Lillian A. Smith, 4041 Maybel St., Oakland, Calif
Robert W. Clark, 1612 Walnut St., Berkeley, Calif
Edward A. Wright, 3342 Chestnut St., Oakland, Calif Clerk
Donald Erskine
was the father of Andrew Erskine. William James names
Andrew and his wife Hannah (whose portraits hang in our
library) as members of
the original group and Mary Underhill Hall may have been
one. (Technically
Andrew was never an official member. He was five years old
when his father
joined Dublin Meeting and grew up thinking he was a member
also. Later when
asked to apply for adult membership he refused.) Anna Cox
(daughter of Charles
E. and Lydia Cox who were members of College Park Meeting)
came to Mills College
in 1917. She married Howard Brinton in 1921. William and
Anna James came in 1919.
I believe Peter Gulbrandsen did not join the group until
about 1926.
The answer from
the request to the Samuel Jeanes Fund finally came in a
letter dated Dec. 18, 1921. "While our committee is united
in a desire to bring
about a condition of unity between the two branches the
wording of the paper
which accompanied the donation of this fund is such that
we feel that our hands
are tied. But if you can establish a meeting of our branch
of Friends, so that
title to the property is with our branch we could then
appropriate money from
the fund for your need." (The donation of $100,000 which
established the fund
had specified that it was "for Friends of that branch" of
which Samuel Jeanes
was a member.) The letter suggested that Oakland Meeting
become a preparative
meeting under Orange Grove Monthly Meeting which belonged
to Concord Quarterly
Meeting of Philadelphia Yearly Meeting (Race St.). No
mention is made of College
Park Meeting. Was it not set up by any Yearly Meeting?
But during 1921
the Oakland Meeting had started to collect a building
fund.
The College Park Association had authorized Charles E. Cox
of 147 Belvedere St.
in San Francisco, one of their members and perhaps their
treasurer, to set up a
fund for Oakland Meeting. He reported June 2, 1921 that he
had already received
$265 and that it was deposited in the Mutual Building
& Loan Ass'n. ("that James
Bean was President of so long") and that it would draw 6%
interest.
On June 17 the
fund had grown to $310.
On Jan. 17,
1922, Robert Wm. Clark wrote to Dr. Griscom that he had
had
lunch that day with Charles Cox and found that the fund
had grown to $1,026.73
and that they were expecting $500 from the Charleston
Estate whatever that was,
and hoped for $1,000 from the Anna Cope estate (evidently
the $1,000 mentioned
on page 3). Cox thought they could raise $1,500 locally
but Clark thought they
should not count on more than $1,000 and that they would
need $2,500 from "the
rest of the country." Robert Clark had looked at a lot 85
ft. wide on Russell
near Fulton for which they wanted $2,800, and one 75 ft.
wide on Howe between
Ellsworth and Telegraph for which they wanted $2,500, but
he felt they should
not pay over $1,800 if possible so that they would have
$4,000 left for a building.
No mention is made of the site at Walnut & Vine
although he lived only a block
from it.
On Feb. 7, 1922
they sent out a letter saying "Dear Friend: The members of
Oakland Friends meeting plan to hold a special meeting on
First Day, 2nd month
12th, with the object of bringing together all Friends and
those interested in
Friends that are within reach, feeling that such a
gathering will be helpful in
bringing us in closer touch with one another, and in
helping us all to realize
more fully our responsibilities as members of the Society
of Friends. (I do not
know whether the letter was sent to members of Berkeley
Friends Church.) The
meeting for worship is at 11 A.M. followed by a luncheon
at 1 P.M. to which all
are cordially invited as guests of the meeting." There was
to be a second
session at 2 P.M.
Evidently at
about this same time, a second appeal letter was sent out,
of
which we have a printed copy. It has no date, and mentions
no particular site.
It says they have already collected and promised about
$3,500 and that a visiting
Friend who attended the meeting last summer has given $500
and offers $1,000 more
if enough can be raised before the first of Fourth Month
next (1922?) to make
the sum $6,000. From William James' "History" I gather
that this Friend was
Charles Cope of Germantown, PA., and that the $1,000 he
offers is the $1,000
from the Anna Cope estate mentioned above. The appeal is
signed by Donald Erskine,
Clerk.
A letter from
Ella K. Barnard of West Grove, PA, correspondent in this
country for the London Friend, dated Sept. 27, 1922, asks
for news of Oakland
Meeting. Dr. Griscom's draft of a reply, undated, says "We
have purchased a
building in Berkeley that has been used as a chapel. With
a few alterations
it will be very well adapted to our use and in appearance
is not unlike a
Friends Meeting house. Some of our Eastern Friends are
making active efforts
to help us complete the fund necessary for the purchase
and we hope to be in
our new home early in the year [1923]. The change from
Oakland to Berkeley will
bring the meeting nearer to most of our members, as well
as within reach of the
University of California where there are about 10,000
students, some more or
less interested in Friends. A young Friends Assoc. has
recently been organized
under the leadership of Wm. C. James and their meetings
are attracting a good
number of interested young people."
Although the
agreement to purchase the present property was evidently
made
as early as Sept. 1922, the first written record I find is
a receipt issued
Nov. 1, 1922 by the Mason-McDuffie Co. for $200 "as
additional deposit and part
payment upon - - a church on the northeast corner of
Walnut and Vine Streets."
The next is a
receipt from the same company dated 12/29/1922 for
$3100.00
"$3000 of which applies on purchase of NE cor. Vine and
Walnut Sts., Berkeley".
My guess is that the firm was acting as agent as well as
escrow people and that
the $100 was their fee. As the Oakland-Berkeley Meeting
was not incorporated,
the purchase was in the name of the College Park
Association of Friends. Apparently
the purchase price was $5,500. We have a letter dated Dec.
30, 1922 from the
Wesley Methodist Episcopal Church to the Berkeley
Commercial & Savings Bank of
Berkeley giving them (to hold) a deed to the NE corner of
Walnut & Vine made out
to the College Park Association of Friends of San Jose.
This was to be held
until the bank received $2,500 plus 7% interest with a
time limit of Sept. 1, 1923.
Apparently Charles Cox was already in the East on a fund
raising trip and he
returned with $1,800 which was paid on Jan. 4, 1923 to
Mason-McDuffie and on
Jan. 10 to the bank. The final payment of $700 was made on
Feb. 10, 1923 by
funds raised locally.
They tore out
the pulpit which had been in the northeast corner,
repaired
the plumbing, tinted the inside walls and did some outside
painting, but I find
no mention of a fireplace in the 1923 accounts, so
evidently it was built later.
Meetings began to be held here in 1923, but I have not
found the exact date. When
purchased, the building was only one story and the
basement was not excavated
until 1949-50. A printed appeal letter was sent to all
meetings in the U.S.
asking for help in this project in 1950. It said that they
had already spent
about $1300 and needed that much more to finish the job.
Otto Heck tells me
that they received only one contribution, $5.00 from a
small Meeting in
Pennsylvania. Harriet Schaffran tells me that Andrew
Erskine, out of his small
resources, paid the rest of the cost. But before the war
an addition had been
built on the east side of the building, and during the war
it was used by a
representative of the Central Committee for Conscientious
Objectors for draft
counseling. Later it was used for the First Day school. On
May 3, 1958, the
house at 2153 Vine St. was purchased for $11,500 and in
1960 the small garage
beside it and the addition on the east of the Meeting
House were torn down, and
the Education Building began straddling the lot line
between the two properties.
(Note: Since
Ralph wrote this in 1972 the two oldest minute-books of
the Meeting
have been found. They tell us that the first meeting in
the new meetinghouse
was on February 4, 1923, and that the first business
meeting was on February 25,
1923. They do not reveal on what date Oakland Meeting was
approved as a new
monthly meeting. The first membership application received
was from Margaret
Stanislawski, mother of Daniel Stanislawski, in 1917.
(Mary Underhill
Hall is not mentioned in the minutes until 1925, the same
year
in which Peter Gulbrandsen is mentioned for the first
time.
(These books
also reveal that Hannah Erskine, whose portrait is in the
library
and whom many of us remember even today, was the first
clerk of the meeting,
from 1917 to 1920 and 1922 to 1928. She served again as
clerk from 1929 to 1936.
(These two old
minute-books have been transcribed and are expected to be
printed
some day. They tell a charming story of the growth of
Berkeley Meeting.
(The very first
gathering for transacting business was on December 31,
1916.)
(The
parentheses are written by miriam berg.)
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APPENDIX IX. History of Quaker House
Quaker House
was purchased in 1959 with the intention of demolishing it
along
with the meeting house and erecting a new building with a
large meeting room,
more space for children's education, off-street parking,
and apartments on the
second floor for elderly Friends. The Education building
was built in 1960 as
a preliminary step in this plan, with the design of its
being incorporated into
the new structure. The plans for this structure are still
in our files.
In 1961,
however, Ralph and Maude Powell came here to live in
Quaker House with
the understanding that they would live there for the rest
of their lives. They
acted as caretakers, gracious hosts, and calendar keepers
for the Meeting.
With the
passage of the years it became clear that the original
plan of tearing
down Quaker House and the Meeting house was no longer the
desire of the Meeting,
and we concentrated our resources on bringing those two
old buildings up to code
so that we could enjoy them for many more years and also
keep the Powells living
in Quaker House. No meeting has been so blessed with a
resident couple as
Berkeley Meeting was with Ralph and Maude Powell.
Ralph Powell
died in 1976 after an automobile accident. In 1983 we
realized
that Maude Powell needed in-home living assistance; she
had been helped by her
grandson and his wife, but they were leaving. The Meeting
started to look for
other live-in help to take on the chores that Maude was no
longer able to do,
either for herself or the Meeting. Before such persons
were found, Maude moved
to Friends House in Santa Rosa. The Meeting then decided
to find caretaker-hosts
to carry on the work that the Powells had done for so
long. Maude herself passed
away in 1987, ending an era in Berkeley Meeting's history.
An ad hoc
committee appointed by Ministry and Oversight and
representing
Property, Finance, and Ministry and Oversight was assigned
to interview applicants
and make recommendations to M&O. M&O then took the
recommendations to monthly
meeting for approval.
The first
resident host-caretakers were Laura Magnani, Eric Moon,
and
Zachary Magnani Moon.
The Meeting
established an ad hoc committee consisting of the clerk of
the Meeting, the clerk of Property committee, the
treasurer, and, for continuity,
the clerk of Property committee (at the time these
arrangements were developed,
Mary Ellen McNelly, now Anna Lucas). This committee
functioned as a support
group and grievance committee for the first hosts. When
Eric left, the committee
chose as assistant hosts Marilyn Miller and Gazella. When
they left, Laura and
the committee chose Nancy and Mike O'Sullivan. When they
left, Laura and the
committee chose Richard Berryman as assistant. After a
year, Laura asked to
become the assistant and Richard Berryman became the
resident host-caretaker,
with Laura still present acting as assistant. All of these
changes were reported
and approved by Ministry and Oversight. After Laura left,
Eric Reed was chosen
as the next assistant resident.
In 1992 it was
decided by Ministry and Oversight that the subcommittee
should be a regular subcommittee of itself. For a few
years the membership of
the subcommittee continued to be ex-officio, composed of
the clerk of the meeting,
the treasurer, the clerk of Property committee, and an
appointee from Ministry
and Oversight. Eventually it was decided to have all the
members of the
subcommittee appointed by Ministry and Oversight for
three-year terms. The
subcommittee reports regularly to Ministry and Oversight.
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APPENDIX X. Some History of First Day School
The size of the
child population of Berkeley Meeting has varied from
one small class to six classes of children from
kindergarten through
high school. Around 1950 one class met in the library.
Later, the
downstairs was developed to provide 2-3 classrooms. The
Education
Building was built to meet the needs of classes during the
time of a
large child population, the "baby boom."
Until about
1969 First Day School met from 10-11 a.m. with the
following classes and curricula:
Kindergarten
1st and 2nd grades - New Testament
3rd and 4th grades - Old Testament
5th and 6th grades - Quakers, varied
Junior high - Other religions
Senior high - Met at various times and places
During this
period an adult discussion group met at the same time.
From 11 a.m. until noon a volunteer showed films to the
children who
were not ready to go to Meeting.
In 1969, First
Day School began to meet from 11 to 12 during the
meeting for worship. Since that time the First Day School
Committee,
together with parents and children from kindergarten
through 6th, has
met at the beginning of the year and decided what they
wanted to do.
Rather than assigning the program to teachers, the
committee, parents,
and children took most of the responsibility, meeting
during the year
only as need arose.
Periodically,
there has been a program for children to visit in the
home of a member of the Meeting once a month in order to
become better
acquainted with Friends and their backgrounds. On the
remaining First
Days, a regular program continued.
For a long time
First Day School took place from 11:15 to noon.
Children spent the first 15 minutes in meeting for worship
with
adults. The advantage of that schedule was that the
children all came
to class at the same time. Late arriving adults waited for
the
children to leave and found a seat. Now for several years
children
have come into the meeting about 11:45 or 11:50. The
advantage of this
schedule is that they enter a more gathered meeting, hear
some vocal
ministry, and are there during introductions. They often
report on
what they did during their class.
Other past or
continuing activities include:
the children have sent out a newsletter;
from 1970 to 1972 two high school age Friends sponsored a
Junior high
group in Quaker House or elsewhere;
in the eighties, a group for young adolescent girls was
started. It
grew into a teen group for both sexes, monitored by an
adult
committee.
From 1975 to
1977 a separate children's meeting for worship was held
each Sunday, 11:00 to 11:10. Then children went to
classes, two
classes in 75-76, one class in 76-77. The curriculum in
75-76 dealt
with living skills, relating to others, dealing with
emotions, such as
love, anger, thankfulness, etc. In 76-77 the curriculum
dealt with
Bible stories and Friends' traditions. Some service
projects were done
in both years: trick-or-treat for UNICEF, Christmas
sharing, gifts.
Special events included a St. Nicholas Day party at the
Marinissens,
Easter Egg hunt at the Hortons, end of school year
picnics, and
beginning of school year breakfasts.
In 1977-78
classes were divided into two groups, kindergarten through
2nd grades and 3rd through 6th grades. The older group
studied Quaker
history, performing several short plays for the whole
Meeting. The
younger group studied Quaker values and traditions. Home
visitation
once a month was reinstitute. Teachers took turns of one
or more
months duration. David Leonard was moved to teach Quaker
history for
seven months. Friends General Conference materials were
purchased to
assist teachers in planning their program. Special
celebrations
include a traditional German style Christmas Eve with the
Leppmanns, a
Seder with Betty Bacon, a family picnic day.
More recently
curricula covered subjects related to Quaker
testimonies, including the newer Unity with Nature, peace
issues,
Quaker history. FGC materials have been used somewhat, but
more often
teachers develop their own lesson plans and activities.
Each year
there are some service projects.
Currently,
attendance varies from 2 to about 8 children from
kindergarten through 4th or 5th grades. The junior high
age children
are not attending very much.
A thriving
older teen group met regularly in Quaker House until 1998.
Curriculum for
1997-98 was based on Children around the world. It
included creation myths from many cultures and creation
stories by the
children, a Christmas play, a unit on children in wartime
with fund
raising to help Bosnian children. The plan for 1998-99 is
to study
stories from the New Testament in the fall. Application of
old values
to the present will follow. Crafts, dramatizations, and
activity will
be included. Our main problems at this time are the usual:
irregular
attendance, staggered arrival of children. Meeting seems
to like to
hear from the children during announcements.
Latest update February 18, 2013